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writes:i love someone who hates me.i met her six months back. ironically she is one of the best friends of my best friend. she was in a relationship at that point of time. but she was not happy with the way her realtion was going. she would tell me that she loves the guy but and he is a very nice person. he is having some problem which he is not telling to her. maybe thats what effecting her relation. i became a good friend of her in a month. i wrote many poems on her. and one day i told her that she is the girl i love. she was okay and said she didnt want to hurt me. we still talked a lot and then my best friend told me that she thinks i am creating troubles in her relation. i came to know that the guy is double dating her but i proved it. but she didnt believe me. she stopped trusting me and was seemingly tensed. so i would ask her whats troubling her? i thought i am helping her till i came to know from a friend of hers that she hates talking to me and doesnt want to talk. and one day even she said that dont ever contact me again. i dont know what went wrong. she thinks i am an idiot and cannot stand for myself so this time when she abused me i retaliated and said she never understood me. she would say bad things to me earlier also but i would always bow to her and apologise even if it wasnt my fault. i love her and i know she hates me. i cant forget her. i just want one chance to get her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey mixy..you will surely meet your guy..i can understand how you must be feeling loving him for 6 years..here i am almost mad in 7-8 months..i know how difficult it must be for you..nowadays i am just trying to fake myself to believe that i am over her..it doesn't work but still saves me from getting weak at least in front of other people..i wud like 2 know more about u and your prob if u dont mind..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know exactly what you mean..i have gone through the same its as if no one cares..i lost my confidence..as if no one will ever love me..as if i deserved what happened with me..and you know i was back stabbed by my best mate..before my fight there was a time when he could have helped me..he could have helped me be closer to her instead he would talk to her for hours in front of me..and he very well knew what sort of guy her bf was he still would arrange their meetings and fake in front of me..
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reader, Mixylicious  +, writes (18 December 2008):
hi to the male reader..
aww hun be strong dont give up u might one day be as happy as can be. think positive i kno its hard but try dont give up xx
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reader, Mixylicious +, writes (18 December 2008):
hiya again hun. i feel for you i really do i wish i cud meet sum1 who loves me like u love her.. i went thru a similar situation but nt exact its hard im still crying over my ex that was two years ago he decided to break the last of me ive loved him for 5years nearly 6 but im trying to move on it dnt work but hun i just dont kno wat to say. i wish i cud help u sweety xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Man, you just described my situation to the word nearly.
Except it was her boyfriend who told me to fuck off first
And i asked her if thats what she wanted. She said i was a nice guy and that she didnt want me to 'fuck off' and i was really positive about it all
I text her earlier asking her whether she was coming on MSN because i was bored, and she started insulting me and telling me how she wants me to never talk to her again.
That, with constant arguments with my parents, having noone to talk to and not fitting in or being accepted is all leading me to belive that i'll never be wanted by anyone
Because noone accepts me. I've loved, but never been loved.
So i know how you feel... I wish i could go to sleep and never wake up in the morning. Sorry, just really want to get this shit off my chest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi mixy..i know i may sound a bit strange here but i just cant forget her..i just cant feel happy without her..i am 18..my friends think its just a crush and it cant be love...almost every night i cry for her..and end up dreaming about her..i know it may sound a bit movie style..but i cant help it..i know she isnt wrong on her part..she loves the guy truly..i have seen her crying for him..and i feel so helpless that i cant make her happy..i know she is a bit childish..but until sometime back we were good friends..in order to save himself his bf must have filled this story in her brain..i want to know why this went wrong..i never say or do anything which she doesnt like..i support her even if she is wrong..in the past she had accused me of breaking her up..but then she apologised..my friends asked me not to forgive her or atleast show some attitude..but i couldnt see her upset so i agreed to her at that moment only..but now she thinks i cant stand up for myself and like i am not man enough..now that we have had a major fight i feel as if i could have avoided the fight and every night i think of telling her how much i care for her and i understand her...but i never text her this,,instead i delete whatever i have written..i wish i could tell her what she means to me...i wonder should i have shown attitude to her? would she have liked me if i was there for her..but not always..is there any way i can be friends with her again?
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reader, Mixylicious +, writes (9 December 2008):
Awwhh hun im sorry to hear that. i know its hard i was kinda in that situation before with my ex. but at the end of the day, you deserve to be loved & treated right not in the way she acted. she sounds selfish,confused, indenial & immature. basically she messed with your head & dont like the truth. she'll learn one day that she's missed out on someone who would look after her & treat her right. wish i could meet someone like that but anyway i know its hard try to occupy your mind dont keep thinking about her it will make it worse. shes stupid to hate you when you aint dun anything wrong. you'll heal & probs meet your princess & realise its true on both sides not just yours. dont get down i know its hard ive been through it myself. chin up & i hope you find a true person one day.. good luck
Mixy xx
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