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writes: I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend, we've been going out for a long time and we were at the movies so we made out. But whenever we started making out, within seconds she would push me off and turn away like she didn't want to any more. Then a couple minutes later she would pull me over and start making out only to push me away again, it's confusing me, does anyone have any ideas why she does this or what I am doing wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, SeaShell  +, writes (10 December 2008):
Hi there
I think you should talk to her and explain how you are feeling. Tell her that she can't keep doing this to you because it's unfair and that your getting frustrated.
Ask her why she is doing this and if she has got a problem with you.
Does she always behave like this when you go out like to the movies or does she do it when your both alone together aswell?
If you have both been together for a long time then your girlfriend shouldn't have a problem with you talking to her about it. Hopefully she'll realise what she's doing!
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reader, xxidkxx  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 hola,
wow that would make me so mad.
i just have to say
if she dont wanna kiss you, then dont kiss her back
when she pulles you to het maybe YOU should stop and see how she likes it..
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 She's playing a coquette game. It's a pretty dangerous thing for her to be doing, because it can go wrong. A lot of girls do it, they kiss you, then push you away going "no no no!" and giggling, then they kiss you some more. The thing is that when they get to a point where they actually mean "no", because they've done it so often before, a lot of guys take it to mean that it's still the same old game and think it means that they should keep going the way they always have. Remember the boy who cried wolf? Well, it's the same thing.She's into you, but be careful with her game. You're not doing anything wrong, she's just doing an imitation of someone playing hard to get. My advice would be that when she pushes you off, stay away. If she tries to kiss you again afterwards, don't let her. Say, "I thought you didn't want me to kiss you?" She probably doesn't even realise what she's doing so much, she just thinks it's cute and flirty.The game she's playing seems harmless, but believe me, it's not. Here's a story about a friend of mine. Sophie, when she was about fifteen, was making out with a guy in her bedroom and doing the now-you-kiss-me-now-you-don't game that your girlfriend is playing. The guy wanted to go further. Sophie said no. But she'd already said no so many times while making it clear that it was really a yes, that the guy actually didn't get it. He thought it was still the same thing, so he kept going. It turned out okay in the end, she freaked out and screamed her head off and her friend came in to find out what was going on, but still, she shouldn't have been doing that.So there you are, I think you should stay away from kissing her until she gives you a definite yes and stops doing her silly flirting thing. She already means yes, she just thinks it's cute. Believe me, if you stop kissing her for a while, she's going to turn it off pretty quick and learn to say what she means.
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