A
male
age
41-50,
*B
writes:I was dating this girl from work and I fell in love with her... I realized later that she had used me as a rebound guy.... I completely stopped talking to her and I've noticed that it bothered her.. at this point I still can't seem to talk to her... as much as she attempted to talk to me I just stayed away. Recently I was at a co worker's party and she showed up, she attempted to talk to me but I refused to talk to her so she called her boyfriend to go over, knowing that it would bother the hell out of me..... so I decided to play her game and made friends with her man. When I left the party I said goodbye to her boyfriend and left her hanging... was that wrong of me?? and I am wondering if it bothered her that I spoke to her boyfriend and not her?
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reader, teenageheartbreak +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I'm a girl, so...maybe she didn't deliverately use you as a rebound. You walked away from her, maybe her ex wanted her back and she took a chance.
Maybe she called her guy over so she could have some comfort.
I think you should talk to her, don't seem too interested, but suprise her and talk to her for a couple minutes next time she tries, and after a couple minutes make up An excuse and leave.
Maybe she'll realize her mistake, and she'll think about you for the next few days, at least.
As for you speaking to her boyfriend and not her ? Yes it bothered her. She probably acted like she had no problem with it, but deep down its something different. If she says it doesn't bother her, she's lying. It bothers all girls when their ex and current boyfriend get along.
Hope I kinda helped. (:
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