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writes: I'm 17 and in the past year I've had five very big chances to be in a relationship, however I've taken none of them. Only recently I've been attracted to a boy who's flirted with me back and it's been fun - however when I found out that he actually liked me, that completely put me off him. I also can't imagine myself having a boyfriend! This is something I really don't understand because I not only love the idea of having a boyfriend but I actually really want one. What reasons could there be for me not wanting to take the opportunity especially since these boys have all been good looking with good personalities!(I'd like to add that I've never gone through any traumatic experiences involving relationships beforehand and have only ever had a boyfriend once - a relationship which was fine and didnt harm me psychologically at all)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow that was not only speedy but reassuring :D Thanks for helping me look at all this in a positive light!
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reader, To_Di_Always  +, writes (9 December 2008):
Well I went through the same thing as you did. EXACTLY the same. But once the person I am now engaged to came along, I actually could imagine myself with him and the idea of a relationship sounded great. Its not that you dont want one, its that you dont need one with the wrong person, your heart is waiting for the right person to come along before it falls in love. Be happy about that, and enjoy your time being single before you meet that perfect person, chances are these boys would of caused you a heart break. The less of those, the better. Good luck! And dont look for love, when you dont look it comes to you. You must chose to not need it, and then the person can come to you. Also It will be the person you least expect.
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