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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I started a relationship with a man and after a few months he told me that he was married. He's not in love his wife but he loves his children. He lives in my country now but she's at home. I love this man a lot. His work is causing problems now and maybe he must go away, what will I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): just leave the guy. you are better off without him.
stop being unfair to yourself. you shouldn't settle for anything less like this kind of relationship. how can you be so sure that he don't really love his wife?! and if was able to cheat his legal one, what more is with you?! can you sleep at night knowing that anytime he can leave you for his wife or any other woman without even looking back?! you cannot hold on to this kind of relationship forever. loving a person does not give you the right to take away another's right. and just think how would you feel if in any case you got married and you become the wife with a cheating husband.
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (10 February 2007):
this man is a liar you shouldnt trust him again just get rid you may think you luv him but this guy has so many strings attached you dont need or want this i know i wouldnt! Keep out of it! Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): This man has not been honest with you, how could you ever want to carry on a relationship after that? He should have told you that he was married from the start. I think that you should end this affair. After all, despite living in different areas, he's probably not planning on leaving his wife and is using his children as an excuse to be with both you and his wife. Finish the relationship, there's no point wasting your time being with a married man. Also let him go away and sort out his work problems.
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