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writes:my ex and i broke up because we both realise we rushed it, he was confused when telling me that he aint ready, but says he still have feeling for me n that im his ideal, i asked him not to avoid me and he says he won't and that we'll stay mates.. he said he's sorry if im hurt, but i told him im truly not, i understandhowever he is avoiding me, greets everyone and leaves me til last. or just blanks me anyways!im hurt by this not from the break-up! im sacred i'll lose a great boy mate...is it because he's finding it hard 2 get over me? y the coldness?reply ASAP thanx xRochelle
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (11 February 2007):
well maybe hes finding it difficult to, he ma be still sore from getting over you you do need to talk to him explain you still want him as a m8 even though u no stuff in the past maybe come a problem but youl have to cross that bridge wen u come to it best of luck
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reader, TygersDream  +, writes (10 February 2007):
 I wouldn't get too frantic over it, I've had the same problem before - my boyfriend and I broke up amiably but suddenly he looks at me like I just ran over his dog.
The more I tried to be friends with him, the more he pushed me away. We still aren't friends to this day, and I have no idea why.
Some things just aren't meant to be answered, and maybe some things are just meant to be lost.
The reason why I told you not get too frantic about it is that mysterious events/situations like these sometimes just need to be left alone to resolve itself. By no means get defensive about it (unless he openly/verbally abuses you), don't call him up for a chat, just leave him plenty of space to figure out what he wants for himself.
Just smile to him as you would a good friend. Wave if you see him driving by. Just show him that YOU are more than willing to be a good friend. If he doesn't take tbe cue after a long while, then just forget about him.
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