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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Giving it another chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a bad situation at the moment and have never felt so hurt before. I've never really trusted my partner 100% and I was correct for that as I found that he had the intention of sleeping with somebody behind my back which is extremel...

My girlfriend made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied. Where to now, with this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - So I found out my girlfriend had made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied straight to my face about it and after a little while she finally admitted she made it. When I asked her why she made it she told me she was bored an...

He's playing with my head! What more can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Hello. I'm after so advise,I'm very confused I was seeing this guy since 2010 with him moving in with me, anyway 2013 he moved to another place out of town with me saying I think he had met someone else,we carried on speaking never saw each other ...

I'm cheating but there's only one life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - I'm a guy who is happily married in a long term relationship. While sex can sometimes be an issue between us- she has a very low sex drive- and it's often a discussion/argument that we have, it's not so bad that I would consider ending the ...

Should I feel guilty that I seen someone else while we were broken up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I am currently in a loving relationship with someone who I've been with for 3 years and we are now talking about marriage. However, in that three years, we've broken up twice... once for 3 weeks the other for 3 months, both my choice because I...

Food for Thought

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27 November 2016 (M) - Nothing is really written in stone is it, many things can change dramatically, some can change a little and a few are more or less stable. Dignity and a sense of worth seems so fragile and volatile in some people these days and for them it's always ...

Why is my married former lover so jealous now that I've moved on to someone available?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - I'm doing my best to move on from the MM that i was dealing with. He wants to be friends and i first i found it difficult but since i was able to get some distance due to our temporary separation i decided to give a friendship a try. I also have ...

What does my best friend want from me? He is married but keeps asking for a secret relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - He is married for 7 months. And he wants me to be in secret relationship with him. We are close friends since very long time and back in our college days we used to like each other not genuinely but just like crush on each other. We got so ...

My boyfriend cheated but I want him back..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I have been in a 2 year relationship, and after the first year I would catch my boyfriend trying to talk to girls once in a while. He always apologised and used excuses such as "i was bored" "i was just trying out my game again" "it dont mean ...

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), ...

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in ...

My online girlfriend cheated on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

21 November 2016 (M) - So, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years, because of her age and my age we never told our family the truth...that and we live a thousand miles a part and have only gotten to see each other twice. Well a month ago my girlfrien...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

My husband is chatting to girls on xbox and facebook. I've asked him not to but he keeps adding girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hi there My husband and I have been married just over a year now. He has been on the xbox chatting to girls I told him I didn't mind him chatting to them on the xbox as long as it stays to the xbox, I don't feel that it's appropriate for ...

Why does my pastor ignore me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - Why does my Pastor ignore me? I started going along to a new Church with my Son's now ex gf. The Church seemed great, pastor was very friendly. Then I had a accident so couldn't get out for a few weeks. I have tried reaching out to him via text or ...

I think my boyfriend has other women

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - I think my boyfriend has other women. He has slipped a few times. Sending texts that had nothing to do with our conversation. Not texting at all for 2 days. Recently, he sent a pic of his daughter. I responded by saying "How about a pic of you too?" ...

My girlfriend cheated on me but claims she was taken advantage of, what do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating for about two months now, and it's been a semi long distance relationship with her going to a different college than me about 30 minutes away. We argue here and there about little things but at the end of the ...

I want to focus on the now and on the future. But how do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - How do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you? My boyfriend lied to me during the first 1.5 years of our relationship. I knew he kept in touch with his ex and I was fine with it, thinking they were platonic friends. But I didn't realize h...

I just want to know from a womans perspective what my wife may be feeling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - What does intercourse feel like for my 26 year old wife, who has only been with me, until she started having an affair with a man that we both know from the past... we had a threesome with him, which didnt work for me, but my wife started seeing h...

How to avoid being tempted?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

14 November 2016 (M) - Hello, Here is an interesting one for you. I am married (with kids). My wife is very beautiful (former Miss), we have great sex - I can get it on demand, whatever I want, I think I love her, surely I wouldn't want to hurt her. Yet, I can't sto...

Why does my boyfriend have two separate Snapchat accounts on one phone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - Is it possible for your boyfriend to have two separate Snapchat accounts on one phone? Just today I went to Add Friends from contacts in my address book and I saw my boyfriend's name under another user name and it said ADD beside his name. I alre...

Can we save things? Or do I just need to give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I have a confession. I ruined my family. I talked to other guys, maybe 3 at the most. Things weren't sexual but sometimes they were flirty. One man in particular was very committed to me. I know what I've done wrong. I'm know I'm a despicable human. ...

I always find the wrong guy! I'm sick of being single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I seem to have no luck with finding the right guy... Recently met a new guy on a dating site. We spoke for a few days then he asked me on a date. I accepted and we arranged a day. However, as the day got nearer, he said he had to work so we could...

Stuck in a cycle and unable to initiate the conversation ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (M) - I am 55, my partner is 64. We have been together 11 years. We got together immediately after I left my previous relationship, we were friends before I left my relationship, which went wrong for many reasons. She initiated the relationship, and at ...

What does it mean if your bf stays up all night trying to convince you he isn't cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - What does it mean when your boyfriend stays up with you all night after you accuse him of cheating on you, trying to convince you he ISN'T? Does it mean he really isn't cheating? Or does it mean he is doing his best to throw you off track because ...

My heart belongs to another and I want out of my marriage but I won't be able to support myself/kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

10 November 2016 (F) - I am married and have been for 10 years. I have three beautiful children that I love more than anything. I stay home to care for them, as one of them is too young for school. Here is my dilemma. I am not in love with my husband. I haven't been for ...

I broke off a 3 year affair and all he said was ok

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing a married man(ex), for 3 years now. I finally got the guts to say "I can't do this anymore, I need more". It was really hard to say this to him since I still love him. He just said to me "ok". nothing else. not why, are you ...

Would you leave your spouse if you thought they were cheating, or would you wait for evidence or proof?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - Would you leave your husband if you thought he was cheating on you? Is that enough? Or would you need to obtain evidence/proof before leaving him? ...

Was my husband going to do something behind my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - We were out of town with another couple for a concert.And we all stayed in the same hotel but on different rooms.After the concert the four us had quite a bit of alcohol through out the night.We decided to go back to the other couples room and drink ...

I cheated once on my husband with a friend I like the attention but feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - I know my hubby for 18 years of which we married for 10 years. Although I came close to cheating on him, I didn't actually ever kiss anyone (French kiss). I was so proud of this as most of my friends have cheated on their spouses. That was up until ...

My parents are not happy that my boyfriend is back in my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - When I was 18 I got pregnant by my bf who was also 18. We had been dating for just over a year when it happened . I found out I was pregnant on our high school graduation day. With the help of both of our parents we were both able to go to ...

I'm feeling guilty, I ran into my ex and feel like we sort of had a date. Do I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

5 November 2016 (M) - Greetings I know this is going to be a long post but please bare with me, something really weird happened to me very recently and i could really use your insight. Me and a couple of guy friends went out for a friday night but since i dont drink i ...

I just found out my LDR boyfriend got another girl pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2935 days ago

5 November 2016 (F) - good day guys,I am in deep pain right now..I don't know wat to do ..I feel like am going insane..I have been dating myboyfriend for 11months now which is almost a year.He has been in school ever since we started dating DAT means I have not seen for ...

My boyfriend is in contact with a girl that likes him, do I confront him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

4 November 2016 (F) - I have a new boyfriend but we haven't known each other for years(2 months) Everything is fantastic. Not moving too fast, we haven't had sex yet, but have done other smaller things. Basically its on a good emotional level too, we are very open wit...

Why won't he delete his profile on the dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2935 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - Hi all, Could someone good kind people give their option please on this matter, is it an issue or it that I've got the issue, and I'm being stupid. Please tell me if I am. I'm gay, I met this wonderful guy 6 months ago, older than me, but t...

Married for 15 years, wife confessed to cheating on me early on. I'm mad at her but also very sexually excited by the dirty details! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

3 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 young boys. We are happily married and are of Indian origin but we were both born in the UK where we have both lived all our life. The first 2-4 years of our marriage was blighted by my wi...

I'm not convinced she's stopped contact with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

3 November 2016 (M) - I had found out that my girlfriend had accepted a married man while still in love with me, I ask her but there was no proper answer from her and I told her to call the man and tell him that she is going out with me but she refused to tell him on ...

How do I move on from these feelings I have for my brother in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hey, I'm 20 years old and have a sister that is nine years older than me. We both have the same mother but different father's. We didn't really grow up together because my mother had her so young so essentially she was raised by my grandma. We've ...

Why did she have to exchange numbers with a pervert and a complete stranger. HELP!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

2 November 2016 (M) - This is going to be a long one but what I'm saying was suspicion until I saw it with my own eyes. She has changed and has been hideous for which I think the situation that I've mentioned below might be the reason. So here it goes. Hi, my girlfri...

How do I stop being obsessive about my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I hope I don't get judged too harshly for this question because it's extremely shallow and I have been through a lot worse before. But I'm struggling with extreme jealousy that I can't stop feeling. I currently work in a weird kind of job wher...