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reader, Eagle'sfan1986  +, writes (22 November 2016):
Is there any proof to think he is cheating on you with a new someone? Does he come home at late hours? Does he text with someone from his phone other than you? You need to get your facts straight before you accuse him of cheating on you. If he isn't doing anything wrong at all then he isn't cheating on you at all. He might be busy at his job or he could be hanging out with his buddies.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (10 November 2016):
Would you like to be falsely accused of something you didn't do, just be someone "thought" you did??
As Honeypie asked...what makes you think he is cheating?
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (10 November 2016):
 Proof. Definitely proof. Id be pretty pissed if my partner left me on a hunch
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reader, Ciar +, writes (10 November 2016):
 I agree with Honeypie.
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reader, N91  +, writes (10 November 2016):
 Definitely get proof.
How foolish would you look if you got a divorce to find out they were telling the truth?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2016):
 It depends what makes me think that he is cheating. I mean I trust my partner completely so it would need to be something huge for me to think that he was cheating. Do you want to explain to us in a bit more detail why you have these doubts?
For some it is not enough because he might actually be innocent and then you are throwing away a good marriage on a hunch. It is best to get the truth as marriage is a big deal.
Some people are paranoid in a marriage and believe all the time that there other half is cheating even if they are faithful.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 November 2016):
 I would want to know 100%
Not because I'd want to confront them, but to give them the FULL extent of the benefit of the doubt.
I think, however, it's a very personal choice. Some people ignore all the red flags, all the little things and others just don't see them till it rears its ugly head.
What makes you think he is cheating?
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