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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I've been intimate with my widowed aunt and now she wants me to live with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (M) - Hello guys I am 30 yrs married now n I am from India where relationships matter a lot. My question is about the physical relationship with my maternal uncle's wife( aunt) This goes around 6 yrs ago due to my uncles death my aunt got disturbe...

I'm worried my girlfriend might have cheated on me but I'm afraid to know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3223 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - I don't know if my girlfriend cheated on me, and I'm scared to find out. About a month or so ago, my girlfriend of about 6 months went on vacation to her home town with her family, which happens to be where her ex lives. He's an old friend of he...

My actions drove hime away. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - Hey guys. I complain about cheating in relationship, but I'm the one who cheated. I was a nympho until I met this person who I really love. I changed for him, and we lived happily until the troubles started to appear between us. I began to tal...

My troubled marriage makes me fantasize about someone else and want to cheat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a realtionship with my husband for 8 years. It has been rocky due to his demeanor, tone, and language. He's never taken stress well and he's had problems with little romances (not sure if sexual or non-sexual). He tried to cheat on ...

I need to stop stalking my ex-boyfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for three years and the whole time his ex girlfriend made things really difficult for me. When I started dating him he talked about a female friend a lot, so much it made me feel uncomfortable. But after some time ...

Should I continue to trust my BF? My gut instinct is not to.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi Cupids, I have a worry that has been giving me sleepless nights for nearly three months now. All my intuition tells me not to believe my BF anymore. And try hard as I might, I find it very hard to trust him now. All started at the beginn...

I believed my married boyfriend's lies until I could no longer deny the truth. Now I am broken!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - Recently broke up with my boyfriend after two consuming and loyal years.I was bought up with utmost moral but seemingly started my relationship with my ex while he was separated from his wife.The constant struggle between my inner conscience and ...

My friend's boyfriend tried to make out with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - i liked this guy for a few months and i found out 5 days ago that my friend is dating him yes i was heartbroken but soon i git over it and just went on in life. But one day he texted me to come over at that moment i relised i still liked him but u ...

My married boyfriend is acting distant but he still wants to be with me. I am not sure what's going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Please no judgment. I have been having an affair with a married man for close to 3 years. It's been amazing. But lately he seems a little more distant. His texts are less frequent and shorter. He says he is just being cautious. He sexted me ...

My husband has started texting women he's met through facebook. Should I worry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together about 7 years and he has recently been texting women through Facebook. He says it’s all innocent flirting. These women are in other countries. I expressed to him that I was uncomfortable with him talking to these ...

Is it love or just habit? Can a husband truly love his wife if he cheats for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Can a man cheating on his wife for four plus years really love her? Even if he was straying because of sex- something that he is not getting in his marriage? He doesn't love the other woman- don't know if he cares for her or just using her for ...

Is this what I have on offer? That, if he doesn't find someone else, he'll "settle" for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I really need help getting over an ex. I don't know what's wrong with me or why I can't let him go. We were great in the beginning, I really thought I had found the one I was meant to be with for life. Then my issues of insecurity came up and he b...

Have I already given my ex too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (M) - I have been in and out of a relationship with a girl for about 7 years now. We met back in high school. Back in Dec 2014 I proposed to her but she said no. Shortly after I found out that she was having sex with one of her co-workers. she ...

Will he stray while I'm away working

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3231 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - Hi folks. Question I have been off my work due to a injury I am now thinking of going back, as the money is really good, and there is no job opportunities where i stay. my partner knew my job situation and always thought it was great what I do....

My girlfriend flirts with all the boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - okay so I have this friend I'm going to call her Anna. she has always been really desperate and boy crazy even in the third grade she brags that she tongue kissed a 8th grader. she was one of those girls who made everybody uncomfortable at slumber ...

Was I always the side chick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - So me and this guy were dating for around 7 months we had gotten back together after we stopped talking for 6 years. He Brooke up with me about a week and a half ago and he's already got a new girlfriend. When he broke up with me I had accused ...

I'm unhappy and want out of my marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - I always wanted to meet a normal bloke settle down have kids well i got married but i cant say hes normal when i have had little digs said to me, i had my children who are all now 18 and over and i hate my life because i hate my husband and cant see ...

Confront the cad or befriend the heartbroken girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - So, out of nowhere 6 months ago a random facebook friend stole my heart. He wished me a happy birthday, charmed me right off of my feet and for a few months after that we chatted incessantly, day and night. He's a world traveling performance artist ...

I'm living with a girl who still has boyfriend. She says she'll end it with him when things are right

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl now, but she has a boyfriend. ive been basically living at her place for a couple weeks now and she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. Shes very close with his family and they have been together for a long ...

I think my so called boyfriend spent valentines with someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - I was supposed to see him on the Saturday but I never heard from him and I text him in the afternoon to check whether it was still on,he didn't reply so I tried calling a couple hours later but he'd switched his phone off.he phoned back at about 10 ...

Why don't I have enough self respect to walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

14 February 2016 (F) - I think he wants me to break up with him. I have been with him for 6 months.He doesn't like confrontations.so he is trying to get me to break up with him. He openly goes out at nights. He is on Craigslist sleeping around.One of my friends set up a...

How can he be in love with the woman he cheated on me with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, how can a man be happy and in love with the woman he cheated on his spouse with? I was married for just over 3 years to a man who I really loved with all my heart. Someone I never could of pictured hurting me in anyway. He a...

Did my boyfriend lie about where he was yesterday afternoon? Could he have cheated on me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

12 February 2016 (F) - I am in desperate need of help. So desperate I am reaching out to strangers on the internet. But I feel like I already know some of you by reading your advice. Yes, I have been here before seeking comfort and help. And here I am again. I ...

Could he be cheating while away? He said 'Good Night'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

12 February 2016 (F) - My husband is away on an overnight business trip. Let's say he cheated on me that night. Would he text me "Good night" or would he avoid texting me altogether? Which would be more likely? Texting Good night is not something he does every night whe...

How does he get away with cheating and then get the perfect girl and relationship and I'm left looking like the big bad wolf.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - I'm probably going to get a lot of hate over this but this is why I'm writing, for help and advice. Around 19 months ago I had an affair with a guy 11 years younger than myself who was in a relationship with an extremely beautiful girl a...

My gf is texting another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I've been with my current girlfriend for over a year. At first, we started off as casual. During this time, she hooked up with two different guys and then met her ex girlfriend for Valentine's day (she swore nothing happened). I acc...

Do I throw away a 3 year relationship based on a "gut feeling" my BF is cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Please help me. I cannot live this way anymore. I am on the verge of throwing away an almost 3 year relationship with a man I love and adore because of a "gut feeling" he is cheating. How do I deal with this? I am right at the edge. I hav...

My new boyfriend cheated on his ex wife and I'm worried he will cheat on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I met a lovely guy a few weeks ago who was married for 18 years. He said they broke up many times but waited until their daughter grew up before they divorced. He said that he cheated on his ex with one married lady from an adult dating site and ...

I'm married so why am I having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I put myself in a very difficult situation and don't know where to go from here. Recently I had an affair with a coworker.I'm a married woman and feel horrible about it. I wasn't planning on it, believe me. When I look back, I realize that we both ...

Can I check on a mobile phone to see if my husband has been using skype to do sex chats?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Is it possible to check on a mobile phone history if my hubby has been sex chatting with other women over Skype. The reason I ask this question is that I have seen a lot of Skype login on his web and app activity and he has never mentioned this, we ...

I found dirty underwear in the car that wasn't mine. Threw them away and now wondering if my husband is cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Hello, this is actually my first time posting on social media. I just feel I have no where really to turn to. Last week I found dirty underwear in my car that weren't mine. When I found them I thought nothing really of it and threw them away ...

If your boyfriend was cheating would he suggest you follow him to see he is innocent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - If you worry your boyfriend is cheating on you and tell him that you are worried about this, if he was GUILTY would he tell you point blank to follow him around and be discreet so that you can put your mind at ease? My boyfriend told me to follo...

Boyfriend of 3 years cheated, broke up with me and now is dating the woman he cheated on me with. I'm not coping well

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 3 years, with our relationship ending about 3 months ago. I had always thought my boyfriend was a great man and a great partner, but he really did me dirty towards the end and also after our break up. He ended up ...

Post threesome drama...what to do when you want to stay friends??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - So I've been dating my boyfriend for over year now and we haven't had any issues in the past. But, recently I had cheated on him, for what seems to be no reason at all, in a threesome. The other girl in the threesome is my best friend and her then ...

My bi girlfriend wants to have a threesome and I'm not cool about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

8 February 2016 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend who's bi kissed her friend who's also bi whilst the friend was pretty drunk, she then told me about it afterwards and I told her that I wasn't mad (she's only 18 and has never actually experimented) but I didn't want her to do it ...

How long can a person pretend to be someone else to make another person happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - I'm worried about a friend of mine and was wondering if anyone has an advice. He dated this woman for over a year. They fought a lot, he cheated on her, etc. During that time he confided in his close friends, including myself so we knew exactly ...

Do I keep snooping around? I think my husband is up to something but he's denying it all

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Hi, Please can I get some advice, I think my husband is up to something... Several weeks ago my husband had an issue with his car so it had to be in the dealership workshop for 9 days and they were unable to give him a loan car. I gave him ...

How can I escape this love triangle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Please don't judge me. I am in love with a married man and somehow I am failing to leave even though I have been told many times to do so. It has been fine until yesterday. His wife found a message from me on his phone telling him I love him. He t...

Is it worth it to force my wife to talk about a 2 year affair she had years ago? We never talked about it and she doesn't want to now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

6 February 2016 (M) - Ladies....Do you think its worth trying to insist that my wife and i talk about a two year affair that she had MANY years ago, that at the time, we never really did talk about,other than me telling her to end it or else it was going to be the end ...

Did this married man just make fun of me, or was he falling in love with me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Hi. I've been attracted with this married guy for almost two years. When i first saw him i had a crush on him and i long to see him often. Last month we started exchanging messages. He said he wanted to know me better. We spent time together ...

Feeling stressed and pregnant. How should I handle this discovery about my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Ok so I'm 6/7 weeks pregnant and I've been very very emotional and irrational the last few days. I went looking for a link in the history of my laptops Internet (my other half had obviously just been using it before me) and saw that he looked u...

Is it cheating or just a friend thing????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Hi i have a serious question. First, I have a friend that I text behind my boyfriend's back. My friend is someone i met at work like some of my other friends. But some how he is a close friend cuz of the things we like. He knows i have a boyfriend n ...

This sinking feeling in my stomach will pass, right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - Married bf's wife got suspicious and he dropped me like a hot potato -after four years. I am angry and disgusted. More at peace though not having him in my life. But occasionally get a sinking feeling in my stomach. This too shall pass, right?...

Is my husband taking advantage of me because I contact my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I called my long time ex yesterday and my husband took it to the extreme. It was an honest text. A prophet at church shared some light about my life. I immediately told my husband a certain ex of mine told me the exact same thing. Out of curiosity ...

My girlfriend slept with someone else when we were seeing each other. Can't get over it. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I need advice from the outsiders. As a summary, my girlfriend and i have been together for a year and a half now. A few months ago, we were on holiday to an exotic island, i pop the question, she said yes and we were all happy. At the end of our t...

We broke up 2.5 weeks ago and he's already dating someone else. Was he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I'm a 44 year old woman who was recently in a relationship with the man I planned to married. He is 47. We were in a serious relationship and were very much in love. We did everything together! He's never given me a reason to think that he was ...

Is this cheating? I don't understand myself anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Hay, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We really love each other and we're planning to move in together soon. So here's my problem or should i say I don't really know if it's already a problem. I've met a man who is nearly 20 years...

Is my premise possible? Is it decent folks, who try to live right, who are the people who get screwed over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Maybe it's because I am feeling really low these days- but increasingly feel that it's the decent folks and the ones who try to live right that get screwed over. The lying, cheating, selfish ones live peacefully. How come?...

Shall I continue with this charade, in an effort to expose his cheating ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Hi, I am little embarrassed to say this but I just found a profile of my bf on match.com, the profile is active and it has his name and age and a couple photos also.. He says he's single and looking for female from 21-34. He's 29. I am 37... I feel ...

Fiance talking to ex and hiding it... please help! It's a difficult situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

1 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have posted on this website couple of times about concerns (I posted when he forgot about my birthday) I have about my fiance and coming back here to seek support and answers makes me realize how unhealthy my relationship is....