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writes: My husband is away on an overnight business trip.Let's say he cheated on me that night.Would he text me "Good night" or would he avoid texting me altogether?Which would be more likely?Texting Good night is not something he does every night when he is away. So I am not necessarily expecting itCurious about your opinions.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (15 February 2016):
Let me get this straight - you are trying to determine infidelity by the phrase "Good Night?"
Just not sure what to add here.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2016):
 what are your reasons for suspecting him off cheating?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 February 2016):
 I agree - impossible to know.
I don't think a "one time" out of the norm means he MUST be cheating.
I don't think someone who is about to go out cheating is going to text anything, because even a "good night" can lead to more texting or a call and THAT would ruin it all, wouldn't it? But it's still impossible to tell.
What makes you think that a simple "good night" text means maybe he is cheating?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 February 2016):
 Impossible even to offer a guess, because there's no regularity in his behaviour pattern.
A change in a pattern always means something ( what precisely, that's open to debate ).
But here there would be no change. Your husband either texts you good night or not, randomly. He may either text or not text , whichever are the conditions which affect him, i.e. whether he is drunk, exhausted, busy, angry, sad, happy etc.etc. , he may text or he may not.
So if he would be in cheating mode- he still could either text you or not, there's no way to guess it .
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (12 February 2016):
I would say it's completely impossible to tell because we don't know your husband. We don't know what kind of guy he usually is so I don't think a stranger could possibly say.
Even those who do say will be basing their opinions on their own lives, their own prejudices and their own experiences and they could be way off base. It really depends on the guy and you know him best.
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