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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I don't know if I'll ever trust her again..but I love her and want her back! Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - Hi there. I'm really in a bind here. So it all started about 2 months ago when my girlfriend of 3 and a half years said she needed a break. We'd had a few problems in the past. We both live at our parents houses still because i have been saving...

I lied to my best friend when she asked me if I had sex with her bf! How do I tell her the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I had sex with my best friends man and she found out about it.I told her it was a lie and that i never had sex with him.I dont want to keep hiding it from her so how do i tell her?...

He has a gf but wants to break up with her, to be with me...should I continue with him or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - There is this guy whom I would like to be with but he has a live-in girlfreind. He says he is done with her and wants her out. Do you see us being together or should I just give up on him....

She accused me of cheating and broke it all off! But I didn't do anything like that-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6525 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - im with this girl (been with for about 2 n a half months) who i love a lot and we were getting on fine, but just lately over xmas and new year she has suddenly seemed to 'go off' me, and yesterday she was accusing me of cheating on her and saying ...

Together 7 years and we live together but we have big problems. Should I move out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Q: Should I move out? Here's why... about two months ago, my boyfriend of 7 years became very protective over his cell phone. When I questioned him, he told me it was just texts from his male friends. I should have known better at that point, but ...

Former sex industry worker to mistress to my boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I am a former employee of the sex industry trying to get my life back on track. I recently went back to a day job which I love. It had gotten around the office what my former occupation was. One of the boss's (not mine directly) started asking me ...

I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6524 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him u...

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?...

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...

My partner had an affair and a drinking problem! He's back but nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Partner had an affair with a friend also has a small drink problem too him back after 4 weeks but nothing has changed very unhappy what should i do i think its over ...

My wife is having an emotional affair. How do I save my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - my wife is having an emotional affair (non physical)with a man who also happens to be an obese 30 stones in weight! He also owns the shop from which she operates her flower business. This affair has developed over the last 3 years! as I understand. ...

She told me she has a history of cheating...should I leave this girl alone and wait for her to call me or pursue her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months now. We met at school and now that were on our semester break, she went back to her home in Boston and I live here in San Francisco, 3,000 miles away. I can't help but think about ...

I want to forgive her but the scene keeps playing in my mind! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - Right well, here it goes! I've been with my girlfriend since March '05. We get on so great, we are made for each other, I just know we are. I love her with all my heart and soul and I know she feels the same. We very rarely fought, and if we ever ...

Flirting with my cousin's husband and guess what! now I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - i've been flirting with my cousin's husband on the internet and now i cant stop thinking about him. he keeps making suggestive comments and says that if he wasn't with her he'd slept with. every thing is so mixed up. what can i do? he's 34 and i'm ...

Love my bf but snogged another guy. How do I get this other guy off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - Hi guys I've been going out with my boyfriend now for about two and a half months and I'm pretty sure im in love with him. He treats me like an absolute prince and is so loving and caring to me, its unbelievable. However on xmas eve, while out w...

I constantly think about her and I'm going out of my mind, here! Advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6525 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - Can anyone help me? I find myself constantly thinking of someone I work with. She's in a another department so we don't work majorly closely but I'm really worried about awkwardness if I try anything. We exchange a lot of emails between each ...

We got together to talk and it went further. Do I tell my bf or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend which I love. He is the best thing that has happened in my life and I am so happy with him. There is this guy from my past with whom I had a 5 year old relationship. We are best friends and we sometimes fooled around and well I ...

Does my attraction to this other guy mean--I don't love my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I am a long distance relationship- was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years before he moved overseas in July. I hate doing the long distance thing but I'll be moving to be with him early next year. When he first went it took me ages to get used to ...

Should I tell my guy I slept with his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - well my bf and i have been together 3 years. And i was at a party one night, and slept with his best friend. I really regret it n still love him. So do u think it'd be best to tell him or just leave it alone?...

My fiancee and love of my life..just told me she cheated multiple times with her ex! Am I a fool to forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - about 5 years ago, i found the love of my life while in my freshman year of college and about a year ago i asked her to marry me. my fiancee and i have been inseperable and she is already become an important part of my family and vice versa. she is ...

am having trouble believing him..should I suspect he did something last night he shouldnt have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - MY B/F AND I Got into an argument the other night. All day we did not talk. I call him after 11 or so...no answer at all..i called another time. No answer. I text in the morning b/c i figured he was up and at work asking if we are broken up or...

This is the 2nd xmas in a row-I have slept with my married boss. But it gets worse-I think I'm pregnant! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi there... okies i think ive been really stupid. Last xmas i slept with my boss whose married and we didnt speak properly for ages afterwards, on my part i was embarrassed and wasnt sure what he was thinking but on his part i thought he regre...

He had an affair so I threw him out... but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My husband had an affair and I threw him out. I was furious after reading texts and e-mails and packed his clothes and threw them out of the window, swearing at him. He has a good job and has moved into a flat in London. He calls occasionally to ...

I am finding I have feelings for another man and I'm worried I will mess up my marriage. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi, i am married for just a few months now, my husband is such a wonderful guy, very good to me, the thing is, I have feelings towards another guy, nothing at all has happened. I really don't understand why ... i honestly don't want to be feeling ...

She's gotten distant..I can help but think she's cheating on me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for 5 months. We usually spend everyday together but since we're both off from school shes at home in Boston and I'm here in California 3,000 miles away. We've said "I Love you" and I truly mean it. She assures me s...

My husband's ex lover is accusing him of fathering her child. Can we take legal action to have DNA testing done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi i have been married for 21yrs, my husband had an affair 12 yrs ago with a married woman who was still sexually active with her husband. she has now blamed my husband of being the father of a child, can we ask the court for her husband to be ...

I have no idea why on gods earth i cheated on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - Hi!..i'm so Distrot!..i'm so upset i cheated on my boyfriend twice..once on Christmas..and once just a few houres ago..i have no idea y on gods earth i cheated on him i love him would never cheat and here i am and i gave to guys i don't even LIKE at ...

She's either seeing someone else or is ashamed to say she loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks now. She had a bit of a fling with a work friend a few months ago and he keeps texting her saying things like hed like to see her in nothing but a baggy shirt. Then i was on the phone to her...

I feel like I am neglecting my kids but it makes me sick to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - Because of a short term affair my wife had, we have been split up for about 6 months now.. I have been involved with someone who I care dearly about but I also have two children who mean more to me than anything.. I am not misserable when I am with ...

I wont cheat but It's awfully tempting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - There a new guy Han who works for my uncle who owns a casino and I am very very very attracted to him ... I have never been attracted to any man like this before. However, my uncle and dad have both told me to stay away from anyone who 'works' for ...

He's scared about leaving his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6530 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - i have recently started a new job and feel for a guy at work, however he has been living with a girl for 4 years, we love each other but hes scared about leaving his girlfriend, what shall i do to reassure him?...

If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6370 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...

She has cheated on me, when she's been drunk, in the past. The pain of knowing this, is unbearbale..how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - I found out my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me about 8 months ago. She told me after a lot of questioning, though she has been lying about it until now. It happened while she was drunk and with a guy she had long had a crush on, and she said ...

Is my wife cheating on me with her cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - This past year my wife of 13yrs went alone on a vacation trip to visit her male cousin in South America. A month later I found a reply email sent from him, in Spanish, to her that he can not be her lover because of the distance but if they get ...

Should I give him a third chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years and then i found out that he cheated on me twice. I left him it's been 3 months now and now he wants me back he said that he was sorry he made a mistake and this time he will give everything he has ...

How do I tell my Fiancee i cheated on him with someone I don't even have feelings for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - How do i tell my Fiance i cheated on him with someone i don't even have feelings for in that way at all..and how do i deal with these Emotions how do i daal with myself..i just want 2 curl up in a ball and die!..i know he will still be with me..and ...

He emails this girl and he says it means nothing! He lies a lot so should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6528 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - My bf was at this reunion thing with his dad one nite, and i saw him sending an email msg to this girl that i think he met there (it was the wrong address so it failed to send and bounced back) In the email it sounded like he just met her because he ...

We took break so he could find himself and now he's dating someone else! I am hurt -what should I do/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years recently decided he needed a hiatus from the relationship to "find himself." He says that he needs to experience living on his own and being without a girlfriend for a while because we've basically been together since we've ...

Went to a party and kissed someone else. "love" my boyfriend though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - i wen to a party and kissed aguy i ddnt know... i have a boyfriend and i love him and wouldnt do anything to hurt him but it just sorta happend i didnt think to stop it.Should i tell him or keep it to myself there are 5 people that know and they are...

He's lied to me before and now..I seem obssessed with constantly checking up on him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6533 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - I think I really need help.. I had been seriously dating my bf (of 28 years old) dating now for about 3 years. He had lie to me a lot in the past, and I think that’s why now I can’t trust him now. I am constantly checking on him; I check ...

She's lied to me before, not sure if I trust her-not sure if the daughter is mine. Should I have a paternity test done on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

24 December 2006 (M) - We met in 1984 while I was in the Navy. She was stunning, and before long, we were seeing each other every night. This went on for about 3 or 4 months, until I went home on Christmas leave. While I was home, she called me and told me she thought ...

He's unhappy in marriage but I don't want him to use as an excuse to leave. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - i have met a man through work. he has taken an instant liking to me, and whilst i thought he was a nice guy, i never thought anything more than that. on our second meeting, i realised he was very attracted to me, and we ended up in bed together. i ...

I cheated, he just found out, how can reassure him it wont happen again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - my problem is quite complex. i have been with my boyfriend since i was 14, we basically grew up together ans are not just a couple we are best friends too. but recently he found out that i cheated a few times a while back when we were goin through a ...

He cheats on me! How do I get past this because I'm at rock bottom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I'm at rock bottom at the moment, me and my bf were together nearly a year when he started going out every weekend with him mates. this may not seem out of the ordinary but i at the time was working both friday and saturday night because my boss was ...

I slept with someone else, but havent yet with my boyfriend and I cant understand why!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I have slept with someone other than my boyfriend. That has been quite a while ago and I have not done it again. I just can’t understand why I would sleep with some which I know just 4 months or so, and I have been with my boyfriend now for a year ...

Been with my bf 3 years but I'm falling for my boss! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - Ok here it goes. Ive been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years but for the last 6 months ive got a huge crush on my boss.This isnt the only problem, im 19 and he is 9 years older than me. I know he likes me to beacuse we always flirt and text each ...

Is he coming on strong or is he just wanting to be friendly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - I have been married for four years and have made friends with my husband friends which are also married. Now over the past few years every time we meet up or go to dinner the guy in question finds a way to sit next to me, this in it self is not a ...

Found out she instigated a kiss with a guy from work! Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) - i have recently found out that my girlfriend of five years kissed another man at her work.For the first four years of our relationship we were blissfully happy and got engaged.This past year i became controlling and emotionally bullied her, ...

He's 26, aprofessional but he acts like a teenager! How do I stop all my jealous behaviours when he acts up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, Sorry this is a long post. I've been with my boyfriend for 7+ years. I love him very much, but I don't think he feels the same about me. Lately, I've been thinking about marriage. All of our friends are getting married, and the...

He's found another gf but still --he won't leave me alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been in love for a long time but he seems to have changed. he has cheated on me and done stuff that i hate such as touching me (on places such as the back)and annoying me. i dumped him but now hes gone off with another girl ...