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writes: Can anyone help me? I find myself constantly thinking of someone I work with. She's in a another department so we don't work majorly closely but I'm really worried about awkwardness if I try anything. We exchange a lot of emails between each other when there ain't much work on.I know that what I'm experiencing is pure lust, and I know in my head making a move is probably a bad idea but I can't stop myself wanting her. I feel obsessed and I keep praying for her to dump her boyfriend, but I feel it a bit guilty for wishing that!I'm going out of mind what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): Thanks for your advice Realm+. However, I think you didn't quite understand my problem. I don't need advice on how to get her attention. It's the ethics of pursuing an affair with someone that I work with and have no intention of having a serious relationship with.
I know I don't love her... but I still want her! Don't get me wrong I care about her the way I care for my closest friends but its not love. I don't know how to resolve my feelings. I just know that I can't just let my feelings bottle up inside me. I guess I'm really confused. I hope that someone out there can make enough sense of what I've written to help me!
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