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anonymous
writes: i've been flirting with my cousin's husband on the internet and now i cant stop thinking about him. he keeps making suggestive comments and says that if he wasn't with her he'd slept with. every thing is so mixed up. what can i do? he's 34 and i'm 22. help
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (1 January 2007):
 This is lust, leave well alone.
He is married, and to your cousin! Double the complication.
What man is not flattered by another giving attention whilst they are no longer available. Very few would act on it if they do not love or respect their partners. He would act and if things worked out between you, how soon before your turn to be put back to the shelf?
If you do not respect yourself, respect your cousin. She does not deserve this.
You may not see it but this is recipe for disaster, it is not love and now is the best time to call it a day, before emotions take over.
I hope you make the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): You like the perversion of doing something that is wrong, and it is.
Things are all messed up because you both made the stupid decision to begin having a "text affair". Things are messed up because of your decision.
When you have a thought...and act on it...it opens the doorway to even something more that should NOT be explored...infidelity.
How can stealing your cousins man away from her be a good thing and a honorable thing?
Stop the stupidity. Block him. Look for a single available male to entertain your boredom and childish desires.
Take some accountability and resepct yourself and your cousin.
FAMILY FIRST.
Time to inform your cousin and be prepared to take the heat. This 34 year old man has demonstrated that he is untrustworthy and he will go out and find someone else to cheat on his wife with. He needs to have his balls in the grip of her hand to learn how to respect her properly.
Let the time fit the crime.
Then get some individual counselling to address why you would think it is okay to do what you did.
Take care.
STOP.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 You should stop. He's not available to you. What thrill do you get out of carrying on with a guy whpo operates like that?
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