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writes: My bf was at this reunion thing with his dad one nite, and i saw him sending an email msg to this girl that i think he met there (it was the wrong address so it failed to send and bounced back) In the email it sounded like he just met her because he asks if she remembers them talking that nite, and he put down his number and asked her to call or text him. So of course i was furious reading that and confronted him then he got really mad and said its his old friend then changed his email pass. Then recently i asked if he talks to her all the time phone/email etc. and he told me that he hasn't talked to her since that reunion nite. But i found that they have been emailing eachother back, and the last thing she said was that she might go drinking w/ friends and asked him if he wanted to go then if he did she would give him details. I saw the emails so i just asked him to prove to me that he really hasn't talked to her, so he kept denying it and it made me feel 100x worst because he included "to put on his grandfathers grave" and then i asked "even God?"...he said "yes". I feel like there is something going on if he had to lie to me like that, but he says he lied because he doesn't want to have a fight with me and didn't want to go through with that, do i have a right to be angry about it or not? I asked and he said that she knows that he has a gf and that his dad kind of mentioned to her that he does have a gf. But i'm not too sure if thats really true because he lies a lot, and none of the emails he sends to her mentions about me (there are only a few emails though if that makes any difference) Sorry to make this so long, he has a board hung in his room with all of his friends pics and i just found out that one of the pics is that girl which is from a "few years ago" he said, its not just them two in the pic but with her dad and his sister. Does that mean anything? because i feel like he has some interest in her. What should i do about this whole situation?
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 I think that you have the right to be concerned! I too, went through the same thing as you! And my bf was cheating with the girl he was emailing!! So I left him and then found a much better guy, who treats me wonderful!
And you deserve to be treated with respect, much more than what your bf is giving you!!
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