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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Diagnosed with bipolar disorder. How do I break the news to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I've known I had some form of depression since high school, but it wasn't that bad, so I didn't seek treatment. I discussed it with my husband before we got married, although he comes from a background where mental illnesses are sort of brushed ...

Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - I am a recently divorced white woman who has been dating black men for about a year and a half. Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women? Now mind you, not all of them are. But the ones that do.... Not only do they have no shame in ...

We're not married but he put me on his life insurance. Is this a big deal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Just a simple question... my fiancee of 6 years has put me on his life insurance but we are not married. He keeps saying that no other man will do that to me and that im lucky to have him, he keep saying i wont find another man like him. But he...

Finding First Term of University Difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi there, just feeling a little wobbly today so I thought I'd do a post! I'm almost finished with my first term of Uni, and I've found it really difficult to settle. I have fantastic friends at home, and I just feel a bit lonely here. I thought ...

I have an unhealthy relationship with both of my parents. How can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hey all, I've been dealing with this problem for a very long time and I would like some advice. This is going to be really long but I'm in desperate need for advice asap. Thank you all. I am 18 years old and my parents have been divorced since I...

Missed the deadline to confirm my seat in law school. Is it too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - okay so i know this isn't a relationship question, but i was hoping someone would possibly be able to help me in some way. i had applied to law school and gotten accepted to start in january. however, the letter they sent me for acceptance someh...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

What is your partner like when angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - I've been in a relationship for over a year and a half now and I'm curious about everyones experience with how your partner or ex partners reacted when angry. for whatever reason. deserved or not. Here are a few situations I often find myself in. ...

Loneliness is taking a toll on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - Hey everyone, my main problem at the time is I am feeling lonely. I am a pretty decent looking guy, and I would like to meet people and date, but it seems like I am having a difficult time. Any suggestions? I feel like this loneliness is putting a ...

Suggestions for handling difficult co-workers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hey I have worked at my job for 14 years. When I started working there I enjoyed it a lot. My supervisor was very nice and he would encourage us to work together as a team. We all got alone very ...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

How do I move past this mistake?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm a Christian lady I made a mistake and had sex with a guy that I had just met I knew it was wrong but I was totally attracted him and plus he made it seen like he really liked me now he doesn't call or text anymore I feel so ashamed and used,how ...

Traits of the zodiac signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - anyone good with zodiac signs! Can you tell me about Sagittarius men and women! What there traits are, what there sexual traits are, what sagittarius men like in a women, what are sag men and women lile in bed? Just please tell me anything you know ...

He thinks of me as something that I'm not and I can't stand the thought of seeing disappointment on his face

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I have met a great guy and we have been dating for a while now. The next step on the cards for us is sex but im terrified of him seeing me naked. See I used to be extremely over weight and I lost it all naturally a few years ago but my body still ...

I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me ...

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...

Should I stay at the job I'm at or try to get a job at the place I really want to work at after I get my degree?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - This isnt so much a relationship question, but more of a question thats definitely going to help my life out business wisr. Here is my dilemma. My man is a manager at WalMart, and I want to pursue the same thing. Please dont tell me hos my goals ar...

I just want a girlfriend but all I get are mixed messages

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - This happens to me a lot and I'm getting sick of it. What can I do to stop this from happening? It doesn't seem to happen to any of my guy friends. My guy friends just give me s**t and tell me I'm never going to get laid. When I try to approach ...

My husband won't live by the same standards he sets for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - My husband is a jealous person and I havent seen my cousin in 2 years as she drinks, has guys at her flat and is on facebook. These are not the kind of things that interest me but I did pop in and see her before I met my husband as she was always t...

The guy who had a crush on me doesn't even want to be friends anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 November 2013 (?) - Okay so I'll tell my problem as a story just to make things easier. "Annie" was friends with "Wilbur" since freshman year of high school. Annie liked another guy named "Elias" who pretty much ruined her life Sophomore year by telling everyone...

What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and...

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting...

Almost 17 and I feel like I'm having an identiy crisis, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - For the last couple of months I've been feeling like i'm having an identity crisis. Throughout my whole life I have never been comfortable with my looks and self image, but it appears at this point in my life it is more ...

Is my husband happy that I asked for the divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - After 11 years of marriage I found out that my husband was completely diferent of the one I though he was.He always had female friends which he always helped,send some gifts...but since a while he was connecting a lot with them and I was feeling ...

My husband won't have sex with me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - My husband won't have sex with me. Been together 8 years, married for almost 1, he's 9 years older than me (I'm in my 20s, he's in his 30s). Our lives and relationship is pretty good EXCEPT this damn problem. About a year before the marriage our...

I'm starting to believe all lesbians are of the lower class and are unmotivated without ambition. Where are all the stable single lesbians?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - Why is my dating pool so tragic? It's like all the women I've tried to take serious were going nowhere in life. I don't judge never did but today I realized they all have the no drive in common to be and do something greater in life. My first chic ...

How do I deal with my mother's illness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 November 2013 (M) - My mother recently fell ill un-expectedly 3months ago and it has all just hit me all at once in the last few days and I feel really low at the moment and don't know how to deal with it. Any ideas? Thanks for reading. ...

She says she's really in love with me, but I'm not quite there yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys, need some advice on the L WORD term My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a month and she told me she really likes me in the beginning which was great as I really liked her too. Now she has told me she is practically fall...

Am I expecting too much from relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. The thing is I'm 25, nearly 26 and I'm so fed up of being alone. I feel guilty for feeling this way as I have a lovely family and friends, a decent job and I have been contented with my life in general. I ...

What advice would you give to your 20 year old self

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - What advice would you give to your 20 year old self? Financial, relationship and just general life information you wish you had known. My biggest fear is wasting my life, I think about this daily. I constantly feel like I should be doing/...

How do I realize that marriage isn't as important as I'm making it out to be?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (?) - Hello, all. I regularly give advice here, and now I need help myself... In short, how do I let go of the fact that my life partner and myself may never get married? I am in an extremely happy, close (when I let it be, more to come on that), fa...

I'm so afraid of getting hurt again I'm thinking of leaving him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - In April 2012, I had a boyfriend, who I had been dating for two years, die in an accident. We had been planning our engagement and had even put an offer in on a house. After the accident happened, I was shut out completely by his family. It's ...

I'm shy, and he's way friendlier than I'd like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I guess I just want an opinion on my actions. Basically there's a teacher at my college who is extremely friendly. But sometimes it's just too much. Once he learns your name he will try to say "Hi" whenever he sees you. His department is in...

My partner is very good looking but I have no sexual attraction to him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - My partner is the male version of me. Before I met him, I was fully convinced there was no one else like me out there, and that I was doomed to spend my life alone. I'm "different", always have been. I'm extremely introverted, to the point where ...

Married 4 years and she's unreliable. Over-spends. She lies to me. what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for four years and during that time we have had out ups and downs. We both work fultime and make close to the same amount. But my wife is very lazy around the house. Despite the fact I work longer hours I a...

Shouldn't he try working more hours a day before asking me for loans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I am frustrated with my boyfriend of 4 years, but before I say anything to him I'd like to know what you think. He has flexible salesman working hours and seems to be always having things going on - taking time off to help his mom move ...

Breaking up and what am I entitled to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Can anybody tell me if you have been living with your partner for 9 years and you decide to break up, would you be entitled to half or any of the property? I'm in this situation and I don't know much about legal stuff. The house is in his name b...

The ex came back and he has changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been ...

Haven't been feeling the need to be in a relationship -- is it because of ageing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

11 November 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, It's been a while since I fell in love or had that feeling of desire to be with someone. I think it's probably I am in a new enviorement as I moved to a new country. but I miss that feeling of love, attraction, chemistry, and a...

Is it ok if I want to know everything about my girlfriend? Before proposing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

9 November 2013 (M) - Im planning to propose to my girlfriend soon, is it ok in wanting to know everything about her and her past? she is the one i want to spend yhe rest if my life. however i suspect theres something shady she doesnt want to talk about and im afraid if ...

I've been feeling really down and homesick after marriage and leaving home...what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I'm newly wed (5 mnths) and I've been feeling really homesick lately, to the point where I've been in tears just wishing for my mom. Part of this could be hormones from my pregnancy (also 5 months :]), but I don't really cry or feel sad about ...

How do you feel about the woman proposing to the man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - This question is for everyone: How do you feel about the woman proposing to the man?...

How do I work this out? He shows no emotion at all. And in his own words is broken.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months last night told me he doesn't love me anymore. I basically dragged it out of him. We have had loads of fights. Maybe everyday. But we are trying to work on this relationship. Both of his parents have cancer. (May contrib...

Why do abusive men see me as a target to be mistreated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was once in love with my Ex we went our own ways because he turned out to be very abusive mentally and physically I left him. As time went on I ran into another guy who treated me like a queen everyday of my life then he turned out to...

Do guys really mean it when they call a girl beautiful, sexy, pretty, and hot? And what do they prefer-natural or make-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

7 November 2013 (?) - I was wondering what your opinion is on this question. Do guys really mean it when they call a girl beautiful, sexy, pretty, and hot? Because I think I am attractive but when I look at myself in the mirror I don't like my stomach,(have a few inch...

How to avoid being screwed over in the workplace again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I worked for a small company for many years and was always a hard worker. Yet constantly overlooked because of nepotism. Recently a new boss took over and made other people full time. But not I and others who have worked there for years. When I ...

What to say to queue jumpers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I waited outside in the heat yesterday, to get my book signed by a famous entertainer. I'm heavily pregnant and still people thought of nothing of jumping the queue. I always seem to be an easy target for this sort of Behaviour? I unfortunately ...

I'm worried about my job in this company!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles. I really could do with some advice. It is a long one, but bear with me, I need to get it all out to get the best advice and I really am at my wits end. So, I work in a small advertising company, I have been here just o...

Disastrous haircut! How do I deal with it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - I know this may seem the silliest of issues and I feel very stupid asking for help over such trivial matter. So, I've had my hair cut super super super short yesterday. I thought I'd look good but... I don't!!! I look awful!!! Even my colleagues and ...