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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My partner and I have been dating for some time now, and well everything has been great! we have fallen in love, talked about how we truly are soulmates and have decided we will get married. Well that was all in the plans, now my partner has suddingly expressed that he might be having the urge to cheat on me. What should I do? I mean does he really love me like he claims? Should I give him one free pass. Partner says he doesnt want to cheat but that for some reason he is getting the urge. I dont know what to do! HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): Well, whatever you do, don't give him a pass.
Talk to him, it's the only thing you can do. Ask him why, if he can't give a good reason, then he's not worth putting up with. However, this may be something you can work on, most people who cheat have some sort of unspoken problem in their relationship, some unmet need.
Talk to him about this, about everything, not just a brisk talk...
He might be a commitment-phobe if he's having the urge after you've talked marriage... but just talk to him...
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