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*evil Crazy
writes:Hi there,I would like to know if there are any guys out there who have experienced more than one rejection by the same lady, and yet be accepted in the end? (In terms of confession)If that is so, how did you manage to muster the courage to go after her, rejection after rejection?And did you do anything in between to better yourself?How were your feelings and thinking like in this protracted wooing affair?Please share your stories, thanks.Devil Crazy
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reader, Devil Crazy +, writes (15 September 2008):
Devil Crazy is verified as being by the original poster of the question I see. Valid point, but I asked 'cos a friend of mine did manage to win the girl after getting rejected three times...so I am just wondering how's the experience and physiological changes like in between rejections, and what the guy did then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): You get rejected once, you don't go back begging for more. That's just displaying weakness and low self-esteem - things which are a huge turn-off for any woman, trust. Studying other relationships, I've personally never known your system to work. In my experience, women tend to give guys chances so if it eventually become 'no', then leave it. If she does change her mind and admits she made a mistake and wants you back, it will be because she has had time to contemplate life without you. Stay friendly but keep a distance. In the end, it will be her decision, nothing you can do my friend. Of course, that's my opinion, others here may hold a different view.Good luck.
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