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51-59,
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writes:I was seeing an Army man for over a month when he was here locally for schooling. He had to go overseas to Germany to clear out and will return in Nov. I thought when he left we were on very good terms. He told me he would e-mail me and even call. I have not heard from him and he has been there for 10 days. Is there an explanation for this or have I been played? He did not seem like the player type, but you can never tell anymore can you?
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Yeah, i don't think you got played, but he's not thinking about you or wanting to marraige while he's away from you.
He's just busy doing his thing.
You were seeing him, but you guys aren't in a relationship, so he's not obligated to email or call ASAP.
He's going to do it when he's free and think of you.
OR he might not do it at all because he met someone else.
whatever the case, just move on with your life, date,
and when he returns don't question him or anything. You can pick off where you left off.
Guys can be absentminded sometimes. They really did mean to call and email when they said it...but they'll do it when convient for them.
This is a good sign to know where you stand with him. He's not into you like you are to him.
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