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41-50,
*asha gurl
writes:Dear Cupid,I do have one more question. Im 29 years old and having trouble having orgasm. I was 22 years old when I first had one and that was with my daughter father. It's like even today he is the only person that I can have one with. I had one other guy who gave me oral sex and it happend. But my current friend and even a old friend from my past I couldn't get one. I even got to the point that I started faking orgasms with the current guy. Could it be something wrong with my body, or is my daughter father the only one that I feel comfortable with. What can I do to make orgasms a part of my sex life. I'm tired of the men in my life having all the fun and I have to fake mines.Thanks, sasha gurl
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reader, ingotblue  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Firstly be honest, not in a confrontational way.
If you love your boyfriend then tell him that you havent been happy but with his help you can be.
Try to relax with him, you love him and he loves you it should be an exploration of your bodies, your minds and of your emotions.
Have you tried toys? there are vibes that you can use on yourself, have him use them on you and even you using it on him.
Sex though it should be between two people that love each other it should also be fun.
Have you got fantasies that you would like to try? have you to things that turn you on that your partner doesnt do?
Talk to him, have him talk to you.
Then if you dont want to try the other things i suggested maybe you will break barriers and make it easier to relax with him.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Dear Sasha gurl,
Try being really relaxed with this guy, and try to guide him alittle bit what i mean by that is when he is down there eatting you out just kinda be a freak and pull his head to the spot that it feels the best to you and when he starts getting the right spot relax and let him do all the work, and if that dont work think about you babys dad doing it just dont call out his name, it may seem wrong but it may work to that way you can have some fun to.... now about the sex i dont know what to tell you about because i dont enjoy sex i can never orgam that way! well good luck and i hope it all works out for you
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