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Not sure if Im love with him or just infatuated ? Either way I want to forget him, but how!?

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Question - (17 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2007)
A female Bhutan age 41-50, *assygal writes:

Dear sir,

i have been dating a man and later on i find out that he is married and have one kid also.after that i didnt go to met him and didnt call him also,

i thought i dont love him much and i can let him go easily but i found myself in love with him, we dont have contact for alomost a month now just that when we met online he always says that he misses me but he never gets time and recently we chated and i told him that he never loved me and played with me on that he got angry and now i dont see him online also,i dont kno what to do now,do u think that i am really in love or its just a infactuation,and how can i get rid of him from me.i want to forget him anyways.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

What goes around comes around. If he can lie to and manipulate his wife, the mother of his children, what chance do you have. She cleans, cooks and looks after him and this is her reward! You are a young, free person not an added sex extra for anyone, don't waste your time on a loser - they never ever change, they just change the face they are lying to. When you move from mistress to wife you create a vacancy - just think in a few years time with him you would become her! - not a pretty future.

Luck after yourself and someone gorgeous will appear when you are not looking. xxx

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (17 April 2007):

deejuliet agony auntIt is an infatuation, and one you are best rid of. Do not chat with him on line or anywhere else. You are missing him and that is ok, you have to mourn for what you lost. Or thought you lost. The fact is he was lying to you and didnt deserve you. You were in love with a fantasy, not a reality. Time to let go.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

occupy youself with something or someone else and just let it go.

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