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How can I love her personality but not be physically attracted to her!?

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Question - (17 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok i met this girl online she lives in the same city as me i have talked to her and so on........but I absolutely have practically fallen in love with her personality.....but i met her recently but she has a nice body nice eyes.....but her face isn't really wonderful.......completely surprised me.....well i don't get it how can i love her personality but not be really that much physically attracted to her???

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A female reader, ingotblue United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2007):

ingotblue agony auntBeacuse you met on the net I take it that you didnt swap photos, I think what has happened is that even if you didnt know you were doing it you were building up a mental picture of her, When you meet you find out that she doesnt match the pic of her you have in your head and she doesnt "fit" with what you imagined.

Take some time to get to know her away from the net, then you will get used to her personality with her face, it is a common thing if you dont have a pic.

Get to know her away from the net and see how things go.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

Well hun have you eva heard the saying "it's what's on the inside that counts?"If you have fallen in luv wiv the person but not really the look then that's a start!Often you find that over time you will begin to luv the look as well as the person.She can't help not looking up 2 you're standard can she?If you luv her personality then that's enough I would go 4 it!

If you have any other problems wiv this girl or you want to just talk or say thanks remember you can private email me!

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