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writes:Am I fat?I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and..Bust-33Waist-27 1/2Hips- 39Thigh- 31My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down.Please let me know, and be honest!x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): you think your fat?!?!? no way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm envyous of your messurments!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): You are not fat. Everyone has a different body type, and while it can be hard to stay positive about yourself at times (what with the media's view of what women should look like), it's important that you feel good about yourself, and realise that not everyone is supposed to be skinny.
And anyways, not all boys like perfectly thin girls.
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reader, xoTrineyxo  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 HONEY PLEASE! You are not fat at all! Dont be so self concious and love yourself! Im around your age and im like you. Your gonna be different then your friends but it shouldnt matter to you or them!
xox
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reader, rk06 +, writes (18 April 2007):
 No. you are not fat. dont even ever let someone tell you that you are. Everyone is unique and beautiful, just as the good Lord intended. Know that you are incredible, and that there is someone out there for you, regardless of your shape and size :)
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (17 April 2007):
 No, not at all. My measurements were similar to yours when I was your age and it sounds to me like you have an hourglass figure. You have the most feminine shape there is. My measurements are a bit bigger than yours are now, but hey! I am more than 20 years your senior! Give me a break! ;-) Dont focus so much on what your measurements are, they really arent all that important. Until I read your question I didnt know what mine were and had to go get a measuring tape to find out. You look good, you feel good, you are healthy and fit. That is what you need to be concerned with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): sweetheart, you are normal! what a weird world this would be if we all looked the same. you certainly arent fat. you are at an age where your body is changeing into a more womanly, shapely figure. your friends arent unusual either. they are simply different to you in their rate of development and genetic inheritance. look on any street any day of the week and you will see many shapes and sizes. with your measurements i think you would look stunning in full skirts and little vest tops or straight legged trousers and a fitted shirt this summer. i bet you will turn heads. be proud of your beautiful curves because i can assure you this kind of confidence in yourself is attractive.
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reader, blackbeltcadet +, writes (17 April 2007):
Number one- I am 5'8'' and 265lbs... at the age of 16. I dont know my measurements, but I am not small. However... I do not veiw myself as 'fat.' Larger than most- yes, but not fat.
Dont let your size get to you. It is ok to be on the heavy side. Yes, in some cases it is unhealthy... but it is nothing to be ashamed of. Did you ever hear the phrase "Big is beautiful"? It is true. And to be honest, no man wants a twig.
You shouldnt compare yourself to your friends. You are your own person and your beauty is your own. Dont judge yourself based on the looks of others because you are only as beautiful as you feel. And dont ever call yourself fat because fat is only in the mind.
IN the words of my friend Zeli-
"I am built for comfort, not for speed"
Be happy as you are
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reader, been_there +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Everyone carried weight in different places and even in different ways; for example I weigh more than my older sister but am thinner/ a smaller size than her because my weight is mainly muscle weight.From your measurements, I dont envision you as being fat. Remember fat and unhealthy is a completely different thing to what girls in magazines look like!! Its easy to compare yourself and fall into the trap of thinking you should be unhappy because you look/ weigh/ measure differently to others. As long as your healthy and happy, theres nothing else :) be confindent in yur body, remember alot of the time individuals see themselves worse than they are because its easier to criticise yourself than others. Hope Ive been of some help, plz rate me x
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reader, pollyanna  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 OH my gosh no... you are certainly not fat. Get it out of your head. Please fill your head with positive healthy role models. OK? Not Hollywood garbage... it does nothing for the self esteem!
Pollyanna
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): I dont believe you are fat,seems your just right for your hight,your friends are smaller than you and i guess that means in hight as well as size,dont let it bother you,your body has years of shape and size diffrence to go through just as all females do
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): Hi,
looking at your measurements, I would say that you are one shapely young lady, in no way fat! Don't get hung up on 'fat' and being smaller than your friends, be proud of your shape, it's unique and it's you!!
Eat healthily, and be happy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): Ok u said b honest so I will,cus I know how it feels 2 ask sum 1 if ur fat and them 2 lie 2 ur face believe me cus I'm really fat and my friends always tell me I'm not though I know I am!
Put it this way ur not fat but not skinny either!U r the average size 4 ur age!Don't let it put u down this is wat makes me not worry about my size n e more.Well I think I'd rather have a bit of meat on me than b so skinny I'm almost anorexic!
I hope this puts ur mind at rest!x
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reader, Sazza13 +, writes (17 April 2007):
well firstly how heavy are you?
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