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anonymous
writes:why do guys ask for a girls number in a club or bar and then never call them? it keeps happening to me, is it because when they sober up they realise how ugly i am or do they later meet better girls after me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): i dont intend to call half of the numbers i get, i just get them for practice and validation. If i get a lot of numbers, then the next morning i cant match the face to the number and i dont want to take the risk of calling a girl when i forget what she looks like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): Most guys who take a number from a girl they like they phone. hence if they dont call, then they obviously realised in the sober light of day that they wernt their type! harsh but fair?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): if you are looking for someone who really cares about you- just dont give out your number. If a guy askes you for your number say 'I dont give it out cause no one calls" If they protest tell them, that if they really want your number they can find it- if they really cared about you they would go through great lengths to actually find it to call you. But dont let yourself get beat up so eaisly. Take control!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Clubs and bars are full of people looking for casual conquests and really not the best places to look for a potential partner. It seems you have very little self-esteem too,saying they might have realise how ugly you are. Beauty is only skin deep, and you should be proud of who you are not worrying how attractive you are. I met my present boyfriend through online dating. Its full of people in your position looking for that someone special in there life, plus you get to see what they look like and what things you may have in common with that person. So I suggest before you go and meet any guys for a date,do research on each and every person you chat to online as there are some unscruplous guys out there who spoil it for the rest of us. Hope I have been helpful for you. Good Luck.
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (17 April 2007):
Ok, I'm going to be blunt.
There is nothing wrong with casual sex, if you are consenting and have a strong control over your feelings. In this case, and you want casual sex, a bar just might be a good place to meet people. Otherwise, just think of a bar as a fun place to mingle and even flirt, but forget about it as a place to find potential dating partners. I know it can be difficult for singles to get matched up sometimes, trying to find the right person. But you are more likely to find someone compatable if you join a club or take a class. Think of something you enjoy, perhaps cooking, hiking, volleyball, reading... anything -- there's likely a club nearby. If you join, you are likely to meet someone else who shares your interests. Or you may meet other people who have friends who they can recommend to you. But forget about the guys in the bar, they are not generally looking for the kind of relationship that you are looking for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): I would not think on it or concern myself if I were you, anon. Chances are, they have collected more than one number, and later cannot associate the number with a person or face. Therefore, they play it safe, and don't call any of them. I know that bars and clubs are popular places to go, but they aren't necessarily the best places to meet people you would want to see again. Caution, and best wishes.
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