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writes: hi,I have this boyfriend who I luv 2 bits but he wants to have sex with me.plus I'm under age!I don't want 2 get pregnant but I don't want 2 dump him either what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, jacquelina  +, writes (26 April 2007):
you are worth waiting for, believe me im a mom im 26 and its hard as hell, when we realize sex not only makes life it also causes std's etc.... you may love him, but if you even wrote in here about that, I would say you are being pressured, and tell him not to pressure you. honestly, wouldnt you think when you are older that losing your virginity to your husband would make your relationship have a beautiful start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): if you are not ready don't have sex
if you feel ready to have sex then ask him if he can bring some condoms !this way there is not as much risk of you getting pregnant
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reader, xAmiexBaybiix +, writes (18 April 2007):
 Firstly how old are you? Secondly how long have you and your boyfriend been together? Now all I can rally say from what i understand is from an underage point of view myself dont think your going to go to jail just for having sex. Many teens do it, just make sure if you're ready use contraception! Condoms are the way. i promise you wont get pregnant otherwise if you feel its coem to that point in teh relationship then why not go on teh pill? you can get them from most family planning clinics and its totally confidential and you're parents dont even have to know. on teh other handd if you are just worried about losing your boyfriend because you wont have sex with him.. finish with him straight away; he'll soon realise your not soo easy and run backk its hardd but i did it once and i tell you what its great having the satisfaction of them falling at your feet 2 days later. trust me if he reallly loves you he will wait. dnt give him the pleasure of getting in your knickers if he's just after one thing
Love Amie - - x
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reader, LoVe_Is_ReAlxxx  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 if you do not feel ready for sex then dont do it. if the guy has the same feelins 4 u then he will respect ur decisions and will not pressurise u into netin. i you are not ready and do not feel mature enough to take things further then say no. its a simple but effective word and it can save you a whole lot of worry. if it is just pregnancy u r worryin bout then thats simple, use protection. you also saty you are underage. its good that you are thinkin that this is important but i have experienced undersage sex but i feel mature enough. all im tryin 2 say is when you feel ready is the right time to lose your virginity!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): Never get forced to have sex. Only have sex when you are at the legal age of 16 plus when you are 100 percent ready. If he is worth being with your boyfriend will wait for you but if not then dump him, he isn't worth it.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Please dont have sex before you are mature enough to handle it, and the possible consequences of sex. If he leaves you because you wont have sex with him then good riddance! He wasnt worthy of you. When I was a teen there were several relationships where the boy ended up leaving me because I wouldnt sleep with him. At the time it was heartbreaking, but now I am sooooo glad I didnt give in and sleep with some guy who only wanted me for sex and didnt really love me. Cause if he loves you, he will wait.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Dear hanz1993,
Listen you are still really young to go through all this with a guy and you still have school ahead of you, i know he probly has told you that he will use a condom and nothing will happen well dont belive it condoms break! But to your problem if you dont want to have sex with him then dont if he cant except the fact that you dont want to do anything yet then he should just go and let him go cause a man should respect you and your dessions, tell him that you want to be with him but you dont want to have sex yet you are still to young and you dont want to get pregnat, and see what he says but dont give in if he threatens to leave you and if he does leave you that means that hes with you for one thing and one thing only, if he says he will wait intil your ready then hold on to him girl hes in it for more then sex lol....well good luck and if you need any more advice you can private message me on here.
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