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Archived questions from: April, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm a tomboy, but want to be more girlier. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - hi i am 16 and i am a tomboy. the only problem is, is that i want to become a bit more girlier in the way i look. i want to start wearing make up and girlier clothes but its hard cos my older sister who is 17 is still a tomboy and i am afraid s...

I'm wanting my belly button pierced, can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Hi there. This is a question for all the females out there who have had their belly button pierced! I'm a teenager at 15 years of age. I will be 16 in july, and on my 16th birthday, I am wanting to get my belly button pierced. I am aware that at...

I seem very emotionally over wrought at times...so unlike me. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

29 April 2006 (M) - Why am i so emotional all of a sudden? Hi, im 19, and have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now. The last 4 months of my life have been the most emotional ever, i've had some highs, and some very low, low's too. Sometimes i can...

How can I deal with my bfs lack of ambition??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6778 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend to bits and he treats me like a princess but i cant help but get annoyed with his lack of ambition. So far in his life everything has fallen into his lap and this is what he thinks will happen now. I am saving like mad for a ...

He was flirty and had affairs, now we have split and I am scared of making the same mistake!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I have been married for the past 26 years to one man, whom I adored. But I must admit I flirted with him back when I was 21 years of age. Needless to say I gained a flirtatious man! He ran around on with with many women through our entire ...

How do I know if she really likes me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

29 April 2006 (M) - I think a girl likes me,she flirts with me, but how do i know if she really likes me? ...

How do I get a girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

29 April 2006 (M) - How do I get a girl friend??...

How can people love those who treat them badly??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - Please cupid helpers enlighten me. Some women claim to love there men when they can treated quite badly. one example - I have a female friend of 40yrs who loves this guy who treats her quite badly eg. picks arguments, doesnt pay his share of the ...

Husband is stressing me out and I can't cope anymore, Please help me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - Dear Friends, My husband wants to move back to his home town and wants me to ask for a transfer when I have only been on the job a short time. I have asked about transfers and have been told I need to be on the job six months and have strong sale...

Did I make the right move with confused partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - k so here it is....my sons father fell in love with me while he was with his fiance that he's been with for 3 yrs. i ignoreded him for about a week and a half cuz i wasn't gonna be a third party so he left her, cuz he couldn't stop thinking about ...

Is it my fault that husband is not sexuallt attracted to me anymore??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6777 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - I just wanted to know if there is a problem between me and my husband. We have always had no problems with sex and now for some reason if I try to get on top he loses his erection. I don't know if it is me because I have had two kids and he just ...

Is he being friendly, or does he want more??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - he is my colleage and I'm not sure if he likes me or not? Because both of us have boy/girl friends at moment. There are some signs and hope you can find it out for me. when he see me in the kitchen alone,he walks in and talks to me and I found he l...

Having difficulty in talking to new partner, How can I motivate myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - i know this guy and h like me and i like him too....but he feels we should get to know each other before dating...right now we've known each other for 3wks..my problem is that i don't know how to talk to him, sexually and otherwise ...

Can a guy change his feelings overnight??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for over two years. During our relationship we broke up twice. First time because he wanted his space, second time because he had someone else and now for the third time he says he wants his space and doesn't want the...

Can you give me advice on meeting a guy who finds me more than a good lay??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - Lately, I've had time to think about my love life or lack thereof. I'm 18 and I can't find a relationship when it seems like everybody has a surplus of them. I date all the time, but I can't seem to be anything but a sex object. All the guys I meet ...

I can't say NO to others and I hate it! Advice needed badly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - Hey there. I have a problem with being assertive. I mean, I can't ever say no because I'm so afraid of hurting people or seeing their reactions. I can't ever say no and I wish I could. The other day my friend asked me to go into town with her but I ...

Do I lose the weight to make myself feel better, is it all in my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I feel like I'm being pressured into losing weight. I've always had a thing about my weight, from being bullied about my weight throughout my childhood, but truth be told, I'm not fat, and I'm not thin, but yet I feel like I have to lose weight or ...

My first love is back in the picture and the flame is still there, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6780 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - Hi I am a woman who is happily married to a wonderful man. we have two great daughters. The problem is that some time ago before i met my husband (17 yrs)i was travelling and lived on a kibbutz in Israel. Whilst there i met a truly fantasti...

Really like my fellow army cadet, Whats my best motive??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hi, im 16 and i have joined army cadets and i have been in here for 2 years now and i am sgt, and i have noticed this boy who is a cpl and he is really fit and gorgeous and perfect in every way, ive just got his number of a mate...

Guys, What is your views on your partner having male friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - question for the guys out there..if you were in a marriage or long term relationship how would you feel if your wife/partner was friends with other men? she would go out for the evening with them occassionally (on their own)when you didn't want to ...

Should I see my doctor about vaginal fluid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - Hello Well I'm 13 14 in 2 weeks well i have been gettin discharge a really creamy white one when ive just cum off my period its not as bad but a week after me coming off my period it cums back like loadz it fills the crutch of my thong id this str...

Girlfriend doesn't like my best friend, I dont want to loose them, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - My best friend and my girlfriend don't get along. My best friend has moved back, and ever since my girlfriend has become hostile towards me and to my friend. She has never been this hostile with me before, although she has shown jealousy of any ...

Really admire my fellow cadet mate, How can I make him see past this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and im in army cadets and i really like this boy from cadets, hes nice and kind and georgous and perfect in every way. Ive just got his number from my freind but he doesnt know i have it, he was going to give it to me at camp but his batt...

How can I overcome my fear of orgasming with my partner??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - I'm quite embarrassed by this but i have problems with having an orgasm. When I am with my boyfriend and when I am alone I often come to the brink of orgasm to the point when i am trembling but then have to pull away as the feeling gets too much. Is ...

Told my girlfriend white lies about my sexual experiences, Any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (M) - Hi. For some stupid reason I told my girlfriend I had slept with more girls than I have done. I think I just wanted to impress her at the start of our relationship. But now I just want to be totally honest with her because I really like her. Its ...

Has my long distance relationship any hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - my fam and i had a vacation in baguio. imet this guy andended up having a long distance relationship with him. am i just wasting my time? it seems that he doesn'thave any plans of us being together....

Fallen for mates girlfriend, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

26 April 2006 (M) - recently i have started having strong feelings for my mates girlfriend, i know i shouldnt feel like this but i cant help it. she feels the same as me but we dont know what to do, we dont want to hurt anyone. help...

I have been lying and am ashamed, What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (M) - I have told my girlfriend that I have slept with more women than I actually have. Should I tell he the truth even though she will be really angry that I lied to her?...

New guy wont answer my calls, What can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - Hey guys Im new to this and a little nervous if im being honest. Two years ago I broke up with my ex fiance since then ive gone on a couple of dates but no spark. I set up my own company and home and ive built my life again. Last week my cousin a...

Boyfriend spends more time with motorbike than with me, Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - I am 21, my boyfriend is 24 and has recently become obsessed with his motorbike. He spends all day maintaining it when he's not at work; if he's not doing that he's out on the road with it, refusing to let me come. Our relationship was good...

Recieving mixed signals from my ex, What does this mean??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - Hey guys, I am recieving mixed signals from my ex, who i have just got back in contact with. I am feeling all the lovey stuff i felt back then. My ex and i are both single and we are having sex. However we are not together. I want to admit my...

I like to smell myself, is this normal and why do I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - hello, this isnt really a "problem" exactly, i was just wondering why i do this. ever since i was little, i've smelled the crotch of my panties. i dont know why i do this, but i do it almost every time i sit down to pee. its habit, but i also like ...

How do I stop my bf's friend taking up all his time??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - What do you do when your boyfriend's friend you don't like much is moving to the town you and your boyfriend live in? What do you do to not allow him to take over all your boyfriends time as your boyfriend is going to be the only person he knows in ...

How do I let my friend know Im not interested??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

25 April 2006 (M) - Recently, a female friend in my place of work broke up with her boyfriend and was very flirty with me, we kissed on a night out and ended up staying up all night talking and really connecting. A female friend of mine has recently expressed an inter...

How do I deal with my depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - I hope someone can help with my problem. Basically, im 22 years old and I think I have depression. I have always been a negative and gloomy type of person but over the last year I have got so stressed out with work amd money problems that now I dont ...

My past torments me and I'm obsessed with blood, how do I help myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - This sounds like a really stupid question, but this is REALLY important it's scaring me. Is it possible for so many awful things to happen in your life that all the bad feelings they build up inside of you turn you, well...evil? sounds stupid i ...

My looks scare peple, how do I get people to accept me for who I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

24 April 2006 (M) - Dear Friends. I'm keeping this short, so just multiply everything I say by 35 years and you'll understand how I feel about this problem. I have Cerebral Palsy. How this comes out in me is in my face, I look like a reject from one of Freddy...

What is love for??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - What is love for? Why ppl are chasing it? Doesn't that mean that we want love because we want to be happy? Tell me if you know that................ To love or not to love -----dilemma.............

Does it turn guys off if girls show interest???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - Is it possible that a certain guy shows interest on you or treated you in a very special way just because that youre friends say? Both of us are very conservative type of person and me as gal believe that guy must be the one to make a first move whe...

Should I tell my best mate I am in love with them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - Ok, i have posted this question before, but i really need help urgently I have fallen in love with my best guy mate who i talk to on the internet and he has a girlfriend. I have never told him how i feel about him because i'm too scared and worry th...

Have alot of personal issues, How can I find a happy medium with my current partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - I'm still dealing with a lot of issues that have affected or bothered me throughout my life: namely weight and body image, self-esteem, and stuff similar to those things...I ahve been seeing a counselor about it, and it's helped, but sometimes I ...

Feel like Im going crazy because ex has a neew girlfriend, Any advice appreciated..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - I feel like im going mad. My ex split up with me a year ago now and im still not over it. Right after he split up with me I got very depressed and and cried alot but time was a great healer and my friends and family helped me through that. I knew I ...

Studying really hard, but not hard enough for my mum.. Advice needed urgently..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - I'm 15 and taking my GCSE exams. I work so hard all day at school revising, and all my coursework is at a high standard and has been handed in before the deadlines. We are told we should be revising at home too, which i try to do, but after a day at ...

Really like my internet partner, Should I carry it on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

23 April 2006 (M) - Ok i have been chatting on the internet to this girl for just over a year now...wer good mates and we live really close to each other, yet we have never met up before. Last night, we chatted again and we had an awesome night...i really like her and ...

Feel uncoomfortable around my friend, What can I do to change it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - heya i had a well embarressin moment last sunday wen i went 2 my church and my mate made me laugh so much tht i wet myself. she was laughing and ppl saw! i cant get it out of my head and i am embarressed about it around my m8 now, i just dont fee...

Will things improve or will they stay as they are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - D has only been seeing me once a fortnight,on a fri eve, somtimes every 3 weeks because he has been short of money paying solicitor bills to get rights to see his son and also his had to work late. Now he says things will improve. Now he hasn't g...

Fear of rejection came true, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

23 April 2006 (M) - Hi I asked a girl out but she said no (though not exaclty like that) and that it wasn't me the reason why. My assumption is that it is me which is the reason why she wouldn't go out with me even though she said it wasn't. Is this correct?...

Ashamed of my sexual encounters, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6790 days ago

22 April 2006 (F) - i have a problem.when i get intimate with a man it dosnt happen sometimes.im so tight down there that they cant get it in and i dont know what to do,its very embarrassing and upsetting and i would like to know,is theyre anything i can do to make me ...

Children cant accept our family is breaking up, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6790 days ago

22 April 2006 (F) - Hi - I am so low and I just don't know what to do My wife and I seprated in last year although we only told the kids it was permenant a few months back and they have now started spening time over night at my house My son was in initially ups...

Still have feelings for my ex, but he is rubbing my nose in his actions...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

22 April 2006 (F) - I am freaking out! There's a girl (let's call her Liz) at school who i can't stand but is a friend of a friend so she sometimes hangs out with us. I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend who i broke up with in January, he knows i still like him so t...