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writes:Hi I asked a girl out but she said no (though not exaclty like that) and that it wasn't me the reason why. My assumption is that it is me which is the reason why she wouldn't go out with me even though she said it wasn't. Is this correct? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006): Hey man at least you had the guts to ask her out!!! If you really are wondering why she wouldn't go out with you you might want to just ask her why and tell her to be honest that it won't hurt your feelings (even though it probably will).
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (23 April 2006):
 Well, I think its highly likely your assumption is in fact based on your previous fear to be honest. The way people feel about each other differs from person to person and some people simply dont fit together either as partners or as potential partners.
Obviously this girl simply doesnt feel that way about you. It's not a failing in you if you are not what she is looking for in a partner; shes judging that by *her* criteria and in that sense she is totally correct it is everything to do with her and what *she* wants and feels and not a failing in you. Hope that helps.
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