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writes: he is my colleage and I'm not sure if he likes me or not? Because both of us have boy/girl friends at moment.There are some signs and hope you can find it out for me.when he see me in the kitchen alone,he walks in and talks to me and I found he likes to extend our conversation, because he likes to encourage me to talk about myself.When I finished my jobs and we said goodbye then he follows me to the lobby and chat for while.Last week, he asked me about what I am doing in the evening? but he didn't ask for date. but when I said i am interested to see a loverly cottage in countryside he said he can arrange that for me.I admit that both of us had a good company andhe said I'm a interesting person also a good company as well. I'd like to know if he just want to being a nice colleage to me or something else? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): He doesnt like you, but he doesnt like his girlfriend either, hes a jerk playing a game. If he respected woman he wouldnt lead you on. do you really want to date someone who does those sorts of things to people. Probably not. If he breaks up with his GF and you break up with your BF then you will be both taking a stupid risk based on some little flirts. But then at least you can proceed in the right manner.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 Dear secretlove, if you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend, then this really should not go any further. Yes perhaps he is fond of you, but so what, you are taken, you cant act upon it. If you do find out that he wants more, then you need to think wisely. You need to decide do I want to be with my bfriend or with him. Maybe he just likes you as a friend, he may not necessarily "fancy" you but he thinks you are a great girl, cool to be around etc, unless he has given you some damn obvious, suggestive signs, leave this alone. xXx
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