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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

18 year age difference!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide ...

Really want to get together with this colleague, but afraid to mess up the working relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hey! Grateful for any honest advice?! I'm 25 and a nurse. A new trainee consultant started working with us a few months ago. I just recently got talking to him and REALLY like him! I admire his work and he's so approachable and gentlemanly,...

Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the ...

Should I tell him what I know or just not mention it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Three months ago, an HR rep from a previous company that I worked for, asked if I would assist them on a case (lawsuit) that was being filed against them. I said yes, and the rep stated that their outside counsel would call me and I would assist ...

Men: How is it that young men are attracted to older women- does he want just 'benefits' with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Need your opinion on this one. I am a woman in my forties. I have a great family:a husband and a 23 years old daughter. I look very young, sometimes people think I am in my mid-thirties. The last few years really young guys started to lik...

No wow factor, am I making a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

29 May 2010 (?) - Me and my bf have been together for a year now. We have got a 9 year age gap between us. He isn't the guy I usually go for, I like guys who are my age, tall dark and handsome... well my bf has got a good heart but he is as tall as me, a whole lot ...

15 years old and in love with a 26 year old straight guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I'm now a 15 year old teenage boy and I'm in love with a straight guy which is our poultry boy, I just can't help the fact that I'm in love with a 26 year old straight guy, I've been asking my friends about this matter, well they told me that maybe ...

Why Do I Feel So Crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I am 14 year's old and I feel insain. I know what i've done is wrong and grosse. I am in love with an older man and things have happened to me in my past that make me this way. He doesnt live here and I probably should'nt trust him... I really ...

I really, really like my 60 year old history teacher, how do I stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm in college...and I love history. I want to be a history SOMETHING. I'm not sure yet but I've always liked, respected, adored my history teachers since I was little. I have this teacher now though...I've been in the class 9 weeks...he's ...

Crush on older woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - i have had a crush on a woman that is almost 16 years older than me for the last 4 and a half years and she barely knows i exist any suggestions on how to get her out of my mind ...

I love him so much but I need to leave.....but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - hi i have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and we have been through a lot together we were living together for the most of the time we have been together and i had moved out after constant arguing as it was swinging me in and out of ...

Why is it ok for them but not for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - is it a "crime" in society that when we have a prelationship with a person younger then you. why when other girls do it they are accepted but im not? is it jus because im not in their chique?...

4 years younger... Is it OK to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid... i really like this guy who is 4 years younger than me. Just now we are in high school. But we both like each other. People are saying its bad for us to start dating but, do you think its ok? or Shall we wait until we have both left?...

Harmless flirting or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - So, my final semester of college I developed feelings for one of my professors. I think he has some feelings for me, showing through eye contact, touching, random emails, and just a really strong connection. Problem, well the first was I was his ...

Divorced, started dating a younger woman, expecting first child; she is treated horribly without cause, what can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - Last year I ended my 8 year marriage to my wife for MANY reason. We were total opposite, and in different places of our lives. My family understood my reasons and were very supportive. Until I started dating again. Shortly after my divorce I ...

Back home, clueless and confused after meeting my online love. I'm 20, she's 40+ married with kids!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - Hey everyone. So I met a woman online 2 years ago when I was 17 and we started typing to each other really often. It wasn't on a site like facebook or myspace so it was basically anonymous to a degree, with no real orientation around dating or ...

How to break up with my fiance who is much older than me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - hi well i just joined and i am seriously stuck, i have been with my fiance for 2 yrs in june and engaged for 9 months. i am 24 this year and my fiance has just turned 43, it is a huge age difference and when we first got together i had no problems ...

Is it really that bad for me to hang with a 21 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16, turning 17 in August. I'm really good friends with a guy but he happens to be 21. My parents know about this friendship and aren't very happy about it. My mom has even threatened to call the cops on him and wants to kick me out of the house. ...

Am I in over my head with this younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hi, i'm in a bit of a dilema, about 4yrs ago i met this guy (A)...he was married going through a divorce and i was in a very unhealthy relationship with guy (B). guy(A) and i became friends working together and he was like a shoulder to lean ...

What was he thinking? I feel as though I was swept up in a whirlwind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - I'm 34 and I met a guy who is 25, he pursued me from the beginning. We dated a little bit but nothing serious, he would call and text everyday but I just got out of a relationship and I don't really call or text guys that's just how I am. So wit...

I'm not feeling very secure in my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 4 months and we were close friends for nearly an year. Few weeks before he dumped me out of blue, when i asked him for the reason he said he moved on and never attended any of the calls or replied...

I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm ...

Is my age, my attitude, or just the men?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hello. I read all these wonderfull answers, and decided that i need an answer to the question that i have on my mind for the past few years. I am relatively young woman in my early forties. I look very good for my ages, at least this is what i'v...

She doesn't want to date me because of our age difference, how should I act now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. I am interested in a colleague who is 7 years older than me. We went out few times for movies. One day I confessed but she rejected me due to age gap. However, she said she felt relaxed and comfortable with me, that's why she likes to...

Have a terrible crush on my 40 year old teacher, help,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 May 2010 (F) - At first it was a crush, I know, but after a year I feel as if I really love him and it's ruining my life! I can't go anywhere, do anything or talk to anyone without him always being in my head. I'm 16 and he's 40, but I don't even see that. I ...

Do I ask him to apologise or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - i fell in love with my teacher last year and Ihonestly didnt want to stop these feelings whatsoever but i decided i had to let go for summer otherwise i would have a horrible summer and a depressing year when he wasnt my teacher again. but then he ...

Teachers: Have you ever had feelings for one of your students?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I would Just like to know how many teachers actually fall a little bit for their students, this question is for male teachers only. Have you ever had a crush/fell for/had thoughts that your student was ever attractive? and has you student ever told ...

Is this more than a student-teacher relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I don't know how my teacher feels about me and the relationship between the two of us. This teacher is a male teacher, early 40s, married with two children. He has taught me for my first 2 years in high school. He has never taught...

I need to move on from this relationship but just don't know how to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a married man for five years, he is 17 yrs older than me, and im just 25. He has told me several times, he wants to be with me and have a family, and makes me promise me I will never leave him. However, lately I ...

He said we are moving too fast but didn't break up with me, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. we spoke on the phone once a day. His 27 and I am over the last five days he's not be answering m texts and phone calls on the four day i got a message saying that he was sorry for not talking ...

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

I really care for my teacher and would like to give him a kiss on the cheek

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I really really....like my teacher. I suppose I am not allowed to say Love. I would feel so bad if I did...he has 2 kids and a wife..but he does not seem that happy. I mean he does but at the same time he is kinda worn out from all of it. I ...

I'm 17 and seeing a 15 year old girl, is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - I'm so confused right now, I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we got on really well, then we admitted we have feelings for eachother and so I asked her to be my girlfriend yesterday, she said yes which I was overjoyed ...

Does age really matter in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I have this boyfriend whom i met a while back. We've been together for 3 months, he's amazing. I feel like we connect. He understands me, he listens to my doubts. I am 20 years old, he is 28, I have my doubts sometimes. I don't want this feeling or ...

The Ever-So Taboo "Student to Teacher" Crush.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - It’s 3rd period Science class, when all of a sudden your teacher walks in the room. Your heart races and his perfect smile, a smile you just have to return. His laugh fills the room, joking with students around him, par usual. You don’t just see him ...

Getting the teacher I love a gift?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Well, for my teacher (that I have a major crush on), I want to get him a gift for the end of the year. Just a little something to say "Heyy, thanks for putting up with my mental retardation when it comes to this class and all the lunch hours you ...

I'm 14 and in love with my much older former science teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - i'm fourteen i've been in love with this teacher for almost 2 years now , he was my science teacher and something about him just was appealing to me hes way too old for me hes about in his 45's but i still find him kind of attractive other may ...

Should I start a relationship with this older woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 19 year old male and I really like this lady. she also likes me but there is a problem. she is 39 with 3 children. she is afraid of what people might think of her and the complications the children bring. we both really want this but don't ...

16 and sleeping with somone twice my age!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Ok, so i'm 16 and did something very stupid! I slept with someone twice my age. I do regret it. It was just a bit of fun but everytime i see him, it's like my heart skips a beat, i just have a big smile on my face, i'm not in love with him! The ...

Little things in our relationship are starting to bother me.......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Alright, my boyfriend and I have been together now for almost a year, and before that we were friends for just over a year. We have a really great relationship, lots of trust, honesty, and friendship and have only in our year span gotten into one ...

Should the age difference be a dilemma?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I would love to have some advice on this. It's strange how one can be so sure of something, but so unsure if it should be revealed. I am 18, and have very much liked and been attracted to a thirty year old man for a few years. It has more ...

I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we ...

He broke up but then acts all weird when seeing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - i was with a much older man (33 years) and he sent me a message ending it (were together for 6 months). he said he couldnt see me to do it as if he did he want to get back with me......like why would you send someone a email saying it??! how unfa...

In love with a same-sex teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - im in love my teacher she doesn't teach me but i saw her in the hall at school assembly and i thought 'woah she is beautiful' and she looked at me and smiled i started to love her, a few weeks later she spoke to me and asked if i was ok and ...

Meeting online companion, AND his whole family?!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I badly need advise before I materialize my plans. I met this guy exactly 5 months ago online as a way of coping up with a break-up. Anyway, he is younger than me by 7 years and at first we were just chatting out of boredom, I didn't even care...

We've admitted we like each other. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - me and this lad have known eachother for years but recently we have been talking and we clicked imediantly. we get on really well and we both have told eachother that we like eachother but the thing is him and my sister are like best friends....

Attracted to a 40 year old man..do you think he feels the same?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 May 2010 (F) - Okay there is this guy who is in his 40's that I really like. He is not married and never has been. I am attracted to him but I don't know if he likes me back. He came to my church one time and he kept staring at me and it looked like he was staring ...

Is he expecting me to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

5 May 2010 (F) - Okay I think I am in love with a guy thats 10 years older then me. I am 18 and he is 28. (Oh and before you jump to any conclusions, you should know that I am very mature for my age. I already got my BS in biology and currently I am applying to ...

If I get pregnant, will he get into trouble?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

5 May 2010 (F) - Hi there. I am 16 years and my boyfriend is 25.We have been dating for almost 2 years. If he makes me pregnant and i then go stay with him and his family, will he get into any kind of trouble?? ...

I'm 21, he's 37, is this something I should try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

5 May 2010 (F) - im twenty one and attracted to a thirty seven year old man. we have known eachother for seven months and the atrraction has grown stronger since then. at first i wasnt really in to him mainly because of the age but now we seem to talk about ...