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writes:I'm 34 and I met a guy who is 25, he pursued me from the beginning. We dated a little bit but nothing serious, he would call and text everyday but I just got out of a relationship and I don't really call or text guys that's just how I am. So with having the baggage of my previous long-term relationship and this younger guy asking for me to reciprocate I have been conflicted. The younger guy is always saying how I confuse him and he doesn't get me, and we have even had a few arguments about it. He has even in a phone conversation told me to hang up on him if this wasn't working out for me and I did. He called back and was upset with me and we talked it out. Well just about a week ago on Saturday night he called and I never returned his call, I texted him on Sunday to apologize and he didn't respond till the following day but was vague. A few days went by and I didn't hear from him so I shot him a text (against my norm) just saying hey and he called me immediately to say he was trying to see how long it would take me to call him. We talked and decided I would text him that night when I was free and I did and he didn't respond for a week to which he texted that he was confused and didn't want to confuse me and basically didn't want to lead me on. Ok so that is fine cause I really didn't see this going anywhere definitely because of the age difference, although it was nice to get attention so whatever but...What I'm asking is what the hell was that??? I feel like I was swept up in a whirlwind.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I'd say what is was: was just what you made it. A game of tag, you're it! A 25 yro guy isn't the poster child for maturity. It sounds to me like you play the "hard to get" line a little too strong and long. If that's "just the way you are" that's your choice, but realize you made that choice and don't sit in wonderment at the results you get from it.
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