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30-35,
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writes: Hello, I would love to have some advice on this. It's strange how one can be so sure of something, but so unsure if it should be revealed. I am 18, and have very much liked and been attracted to a thirty year old man for a few years. It has more recently developed into a very strong attraction. We are both in the same work industry, and have very similar interests. I can also tell that he is most likely very attracted to me as well. We both are the type to hide it though, and we are both very reserved people as well. I am just daunted by the age difference, and am not sure whether or not to let him know of my feelings. I know it is perfectly normal to be attracted to someone, I just don't want to ruin anything under any circumstances. But at the same time, perhaps taking a chance could be a great opportunity. What are your opinions? Should I tell him or keep it to myself for awhile? Reply to this Question
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reader, whatthehell  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Girl! Tell him! You know, I personally believe that you will forever regret not telling him. You don't want to sit in your home after decades and wonder 'WHAT IF?'
If you have been attracted to him, then you shouldn't worry about the age gap. Are you worried about what other people will tell you? You can't let other people dictate your happiness and control your life. You deserve to do this for yourself. We all have risks to take every once in a while. If ever it doesn't turn out as you planned, then at least, you'll never wonder what could have been in the future. :)
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