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Archived questions from: February, 2023 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Childish wife is angry yet again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 644 days ago

28 February 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi There, I'm a 42yr old married man with 1 child. Myself and my wife are arguing alot at the moment and not getting on at all, I feel we are at a point that anything that can create an argument will. Yesterday was my wife's birthday we have had a rocky week and I order flow... (454 words)

Former FWB still has feelings for me not reciprocated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

25 February 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m not quite sure how to sort of approach this situation. It’s quite complicated but to go back to the start. 12 years ago I met my now husband - he was in a relationship so nothing happened between us at that time. I did however have a 4 year on/off fling with his best ... (393 words)

My bf is very dirty. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

25 February 2023 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. After 5 months in the relationship I slowly started unraveling a kind of lie by ommission. Turns out he is a very dirty person. He doesn't wash his teeth. Takes baths once every two weeks and wears the same clothes for lots of ... (167 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

24 February 2023 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I tell my girlfriend that she was right to be worried and that I am actually gay? Long story short my girlfriend always had this 'feeling I was gay' because I've had sex with men and I've always denied it, I don't know maybe I was hiding it from myself but recen... (103 words)

My wife is cheating with former threesome partner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 662 days ago

23 February 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - i recently discovered that my wife has been seeing a man that in the past we had two threesomes with.. these threesomes ended or so i thought,when i had to have pelvis surgery due to a car accident..... unfortunetly the surgery affected my ability to perform sexually which was ... (195 words)

How to cope with boyfriends long working hours?

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21 February 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 12 months now. We were set up on a date by my brother in law and I have never looked back. I had broken up with the father of my 8 year old daughter, 2 years prior, having been together for 5 years. I had dat... (622 words)

How to repair a fractured friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 667 days ago

20 February 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, I got into a big fight with one of my close friends. Needless to say, shamefully, I was the one at fault and became very over-emotional and angry with them at the time for reasons I could not comprehend while I was in an emotional state. We decided to take some spa... (410 words)

Need advice I am at my wits end

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 668 days ago

20 February 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my ex split up 3 year ago we have a son together I also have a son from a previous relationship who he brought up as his own as his real father does not bother with him he looks after them while I work 18 hours a week over 3 days he says he doesn’t need to pay ... (191 words)

Does my husband not care for me as I care for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 668 days ago

20 February 2023 (F) age 51-59 - Does my husband not care for me as I do for him. He as high blood pressure and high cholesterol and I ask him if he as checked his blood pressure and taken his tablets for cholesterol nearly every day. Why didn’t he seem concerned why I told him about my palpitations and feel... (236 words)

How do I change feelings of abandonment and not ruin my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 668 days ago

19 February 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm hoping someone can give me some advice on how to change feelings of abandonment. For background, I was neglected and abused as a child and never felt like I belonged with my family. Both of my parents disowned their families as they became adults meaning that I never go... (278 words)

How to make wife orgasm during intercourse without her feeling too sore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

19 February 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, We've spoken about this and she always says she feels like she's about to orgasm during intercourse but for some reason hasn't been able to and becomes sore shortly after after this sensation so I stop. Anyone know how to overcome this, not sure if this is a mental... (65 words)

Friend let me down & never apologized!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 668 days ago

19 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has really let me down and she doesn’t seem at all sorry. My daughter is on half term and she went to stay with her dad for the week, who lives 6 hours away. Anytime my daughter leaves, I miss her so much, I always organize things to do, to keep myself busy on ... (350 words)

What if he tells others we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 672 days ago

17 February 2023 (F)

age 18-21 - I want my friend to fuck me, he usually comes to me and ask for us to fuck but I'm scared he might tell other's that we did it. I just don't want others to know. I'm a virgin but when he come around I try to hold myself but deeply I just want him to finger and fuck me. There ... (160 words)

Girlfriend feels pain more than pleasure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 672 days ago

16 February 2023 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend feels pain much more than pleasure while we're having sex which just makes it feel as if I'm doing something wrong. So to give you context, we started having sex last year in November. For all the while till last month or so, it was easy for her to have me enter... (128 words)

An affair thats remembered

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 670 days ago

16 February 2023 (F)

age - why cant i forget an affair my husband had 20 years ago we are happy now but its alwas in the back of my mind... (25 words)

Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 672 days ago

16 February 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone else resisted a mutual attraction to an in law for years only to end up having a weak moment and doing the forbidden? I have been married for over 15 years and have two kids that are young adults. My marriage has been good a majority of the time and rough for a ... (205 words)

I feel like I have the most pathetic dating life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 671 days ago

15 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - It’s bittersweet when I post on here bc 1. I know it’s bc I made an error 2. My agony aunts and uncles are so good at advising me. I’ve been posting on here since 2011 once in a while. So thank you for your kind words!! Here’s another one of my dating disasters. I met thi... (377 words)

Unfriendly neighbor says hello after a year of avoiding me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 674 days ago

14 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - The woman living next to me is the most confusing human I've encountered! When she moved in, I made sure to say hello, in passing, but she ignored me. Another time, I went to wave as she drove up her driveway, and she turned her head in the opposite direction until ... (178 words)

Moody husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 674 days ago

13 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thanks My husband is very moody. More than usual. He's always more or less has an attitude its his way or no way, and I really don't like it. He says he's stressed from work, he does work lots he has alot of hours and is in management. I do understand that ... (157 words)

Do I tell my family about my biological son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

12 February 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was in my early twenties, I got my girlfriend pregnant. We were not ready to be parents, especially since I was going to therapy for anger issues and my girlfriend just made one year sober. My girlfriend's sister and husband adopted our son. They did a great job at rai... (278 words)

I thought rebound relationships didn't work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

11 February 2023 (F) age 51-59 - Hello, I am wondering why both of my ex partners have had successful rebound relationships after they broke up with me. The first ex has been with his now wife for over 20 years. Then, my ex husband (of 18 years) discarded me and family for a Ukrainian he met on a dating site ... (340 words)

Came face to face with a dreadful, abusive ex and it was awful. How should I behave if I see him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 680 days ago

9 February 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a terribly emotionally abusive relationship for about 3 years, many years ago. He was my high school boyfriend and everything seemed fine at first but then started spiralling out of control really fast. He would call me the worst of names, wouldn't allow me to talk to ... (332 words)

How does an open relationship work for others?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 680 days ago

8 February 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 22 years and sex is still great, but pretty much the same way much of the time. Lately, we have been talking about maybe trying an open relationship and seeing others. We have a very strong marriage and I think both of us are almost ready to ... (86 words)

I don't feel comfortable about my mom's partner and she won't back me up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 680 days ago

7 February 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, sorry this question is rather long. I'm an adult and hopefully moving out soon, but I have been struggling with my mother and her partner. They have been together for 9 years after my parents' divorce. I suffered abuse from my estranged father and stepmother in ch... (677 words)

Trouble letting go of people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 681 days ago

7 February 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 29 and 19 weeks pregnant. The father was between my ex fiance and my friend but I've got the conception dates and they point to my ex fiance. My ex fiance wants to get back together but won't if I continue being friends with the other guy. The other guy and... (480 words)

Husband has unhealthy relationship with his friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

7 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I think my husband has unhealthy relation with his friend. Let me explain this, this friend of his is a childhood friend and they connected only few months back when his friends mom died and from that time my husband almost spends his weekend atleast one enti... (355 words)

Boyfriend abused me should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 680 days ago

7 February 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for the past 2 years. We had plans to get married and settle down. But we were recently in a 9 month long distance and I was flirtatiously texting some guys which i thought was harmless. There was one guy in particularly i spoke more ... (256 words)

What happens at bachelor's parties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

5 February 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - What happens at bachelor's parties? My wife has been asked to be the stripper for a friend of someone she knows. It's suppose to take place in March and she says it sounds exciting, but I need to hear what others think about it, before I give her my OK to do it.... (55 words)

Questioning if our marriage still have a chance

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5 February 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - My current relationship is quite complicated. So I will just give the most important details so you can have the big picture abd can give me some good advice. I'm married to a wonderful woman who has mental issues regarding anger management and she has been under medicati... (265 words)

My friend won’t accept no for an answer over a particular situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

5 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - ? ? So this is a really odd scenario. When I was 13 my parents built a granny annex next to our house - it was for my grandmother to live in after my grandad died- when she also passed away my sister and I had sleepovers in it and we have lots if family members who ... (493 words)

My friend is milking her break up. How do I approach the subject?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

5 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - ? ? ?I’m annoyed at my friend but I can’t be honest with her as she’s been through a lot and I don’t want to come across as insensitive. In June 2022 she discovered that her boyfriend of 6 years was having an affair with her housemate. Of course she was devastated.... (559 words)

Will it be ok to let my wife be the stripper for a bachelor party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 681 days ago

5 February 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - Before the pandemic, my wife, now 34, was a dancer at a club out of town. Recently, one of the other girls that danced there, contacted my wife and asked her if she would consider being a stripper for her brother's friend's bachelor. My wife told her that she would talk with ... (130 words)

Why is my ex reaching out after so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

5 February 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy about three years ago. We had a great relationship when we were together, however, he kept going back and fourth between me and his ex whom he has a young son with and I was caught in the middle. It was a toxic cycle that I finally decided to let go of and ... (304 words)

Is he doing it just for the thrill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 674 days ago

2 February 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Back story: My husband and I have been married for a year. We dated for two years and our families were involved in setting us up. I moved to a foreign country to live with him. He helped me build a career and life here. He's been loving caring and attentive as a husband. He's ... (1012 words)

How do I accept what happened and move on?

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1 February 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost 3 years ago, at the beginning of the pandemic I felt socially isolated and spent more time online on places like fb chatting with random strangers to pass time.... I met a young man( 19 years younger than me)who I kept at arms length for a long time bc of the age diff ... (470 words)