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Will it be ok to let my wife be the stripper for a bachelor party?

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Question - (5 February 2023) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2023)
A male United States age 51-59, *hip writes:

Before the pandemic, my wife, now 34, was a dancer at a club out of town. Recently, one of the other girls that danced there, contacted my wife and asked her if she would consider being a stripper for her brother's friend's bachelor. My wife told her that she would talk with me about it and get back in touch with her. She says it sounds exciting and if I'm ok with her doing it, she thinks she would like to do it. The bachelor party is scheduled for sometime in early March, so before I give her my approval, I want to here what others think of the idea. I have never been to a bachelor party, so please leave your thoughts for me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2023):

Some guys like the idea of other guys ogling and maybe touching their wife, and like to talk about it. They go into chat rooms and tell everyone who will listen that they will allow their woman to be a stripper at a party etc - when the truth is they are totally single or their girlfriend or wife is not going to be a stripper at all. This is just their weirdo pervy fantasy. Some of them go into forums and ask about it, getting a hard on, pretending it is a genuine question. Know what I mean?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2023):

kenny agony auntI personally would not be happy with my wife/girlfriend dancing and stripping for a bunch of guy's looking, oggling, or even touching her.

I guess you must be ok with it to a certain extent because she did this before the pandemic.

Will this be a one off event?. or will this be a thing that will transpire into more and more subsequent events with her expecting you to be ok with this.

To be honest, i would not really imagine many guys being ok with this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2023):

If you are here asking this question it means you are not comfortable with the idea! Even the idea is inappropriate! What’s the need for this? In my opinion approving this will open the door for more to come and you will regret it later.

If I was a guy I would never ever let my wife get engaged in such a thing regardless of the past.

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