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writes:My current relationship is quite complicated. So I will just give the most important details so you can have the big picture abd can give me some good advice.I'm married to a wonderful woman who has mental issues regarding anger management and she has been under medication for the last 15 years or so. I'm a completely mess. I have PTSD, I suffer from Borderline personality disorder and I am a heterosexual crossdresser on occasion. Both of us are under counseling. When we met I told her about all my issues and she gave me her support. We had the most wonderful relationship ever. But during the pandemic and being locked out things started to go sour and every day fighting was common issue until i got tired of it. I had enough and went out on a holiday by myself to get my mind clear.Turned out i realized i didn't missed her at all. I missed our daughter but that was it. I still love her, she is my best friend and the mother of my child but i have no passion or desire anymore and she feels the same. I guess we still together for financial reasons and co-parenting. When i was abroad i got so many times hit on by way younger and very attractive girls. Which made me question my loyalty. I didn't cheat on her but for the first time in 10 years we have bee together i was tempted. Do we still have a chance to fix our marriage?
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