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How to make an anonymous compliment without being creepy?

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Question - (17 September 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2015)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Is there a way for a man to pay an anonymous compliment to a woman without it freaking her out or making him seem creepy? (Like for instance by e-mail?)

Thanks!

(BTW I don't mean something lame like 'oh my gawd u r so hot!!' LOL)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2015):

Nope, it'll always be creepy if someone compliments someone without saying who they are, how they know each other and where they saw them. If you want to compliment someone then do it in the moment face to face.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (18 September 2015):

Honeypie agony auntSorry, OP I don't think there is a "good" way to give a person an anonymous compliment without the chance of it being perceived as creepy... or stalker-ish.

And honestly, what would the point BE in making it anonymous? Wouldn't you WANT her to know the person behind the compliment?

What is your motivation for NOT telling her in person, Or in a manner where she can respond to it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2015):

Actually it is totally wrong to give an anonymous compliment.If you know her and on talking terms with her just wait for the opportunity to rise to compliment her and be true and natural, don't overdo it.

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