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writes:Girl A:-quite "generic"-long hair, decent sized boobs but slim, wears dresses and hardly ever trousers and a lot of heels-doesn't wear makeup-bit of a goody two shoes, always annoyingly nice to everyone, comes off as fake, ridiculously big on morals and rumoured to be sexually inexperienced. doesnt gossip, understand sarcasm or irony-self employed but probably through daddys connections, never went to uni but private schooled-sportyGirl B:-does her own thing-shoulder length hair with highlights, slim and tall with model like figure but small boobs-always has well done makeup, with sexy features like smoky eyes or red lips-dresses in an interesting androgynous way or like no one else dresses-great sense of humour, sharp blunt personality, individual, likes to see the irony in things-good in bed but hasn't been a slut, good at flirting too and can flirt with any guy, "one of the guys" in some way, can drink you under the table and play pool, swear etc.-went to Oxbridge but only got a 2:2 oh well-video gamer and runs a gaming group in Norwich, plays the guitar and sings really well too, photographer, goes cycling and is in good shape-smokes but only occasionallyWhich one would you rather date?
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reader, Anonny +, writes (18 September 2015):
Why do education results matter? Surely the fact you both have had an education is the important thing. Come to think of it - why should breast size & makeup matter either?
This sounds like the criteria people used to look for in beauty competitions - which are extremely superficial.
You need to ask the guy himself who he would rather date & I'm sure his answer will be the one he likes & gets along with best or he may say the "prettiest one" if he is as superficial!!
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (18 September 2015):
 Of course the one with the biggest breasts!
Just kidding, but this question is so obviously a competition between you and the woman who got the guy you were after, that a smart man would never answer it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2015): I know that most guys don't like when a girl swears.
Appearance has nothing to do with anything. Appearance can attract initially but then if you swear and drink like a sailor, nothing will help. Small boobs or big I won't matter.
Men have different preferences, but it doesn't matter they won't date someone because she doesn't have big enough boobs. Lust and relationship are two different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2015): What difference does it make who I'd date. You won't date someone because that's what the masses would do, will you?
You will date someone because you like them.
So do you like either of them?
It doesn't sound like it.
Didn't go to university, only successful through daddy's connections, only got a 2.2, small boobs, annoyingly nice...
You'll end up making both miserable since you have so little respect of them.
Wait for option C. With her, you won't find fault. If you do find something different about her, you'll only think It's cute and special and you'll like her even more for it
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 September 2015):
 I agree with other aunts. You're girl B I take it??
Compatibility comes into play, so it's impossible to answer.
However, there were a couple of things that stood out in your comparison that I must comment on, because they show me what you think are strong points...
Why compare breast sizes?? That one raised my eyebrows. Why is that so important to YOU? I would be just as surprised if a guy came on here to ask us this question and expressly pointed out penis size as a comparison issue.
The other thing that stands out here, and I think even a bigger thing is - it's apparent that this is a "good girl" - "bad girl" comparison, with Girl A being the inexperienced generic stereotypical girl and Girl B being the smoker, drinker, unemployed, but eager in bed type with "smoky" eyes.
Just be yourself! Don't try to play a part and don't compare yourself to anyone! If this guy is making eyes toward your rival, don't try to upstage her or be someone you're not, because it could be that there's a guy who would be a better fit for you!
I'm tempted to call Girl A "Betty" and Girl B "Veronica". Archie would have been better with Betty, but he chose Veronica. Betty was the one he relied on, but she was ultimately friend-zoned.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 September 2015):
 I think that is impossible for us here on DC to answer.
It really comes down to the guy in question, his taste, hobbies, values, likes, dislikes, morals.
What I will say is this, IF I were you... I wouldn't compare myself to another girl or "compete" for some guy's attention or affection. If this guy can't seem to make up his mind WHO he wants.. I would make the assumption FOR him, that it wasn't me.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (18 September 2015):
 It all depends what the guy is looking for. So if I was looking for sexual adventure and had no intent on getting married then girl B. On the other hand, if my priority was marriage, family, children... then girl A. This is subject to change depending on personality mesh, aspirations, view of life etc...so it is hard to determine just by reading a dry description.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 September 2015):
 Wouldn't this depend on the guy?
And I would point out that you've used quite a few negative words about girl A and many positive words about girl B. So perhaps your perspective is a bit skewed?
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reader, Slippers +, writes (18 September 2015):
I take it your girl b . And that you are somehow in competition with girl a. I think it's hard to classify people hence why I think your girl B. As reading your list I'm some of a and b . I don't smoke or curse though ...
So you are gauging this on real peeps .. its hard to say whom one guy would like more.. We would have to know him .. as some guys just have certain type and who knows who that would be .. sorry sweetie ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2015): I don't find swearing or smoking attractive so girl A.
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