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writes:I'm married for 37 yrs.wonderful wife but things aren't perfect.she's just gone through menopause.we both have physical problems but here's the question? She seems she doesn't care about sex no more.I've tried to be a good husband I've worked hard and she has to.she doesn't want me to touch her at any place.I can't touch her breast no kissing and no foreplay at all.I know she masterbate with a shower head because I asked her.but she doesn't want me to do it.we have sex but I have to hurry up and get it done.its hard to have sex 12' away when you only have 5" rod.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2015): Men have a longer sex drive than women. You need to be prepared to give her space. Remind her that you love her and make her feel wanted. Maybe give her some time to be herself but be open with affection, like wrapping your arms around her waist when she's in the kitchen, resting your chin on her shoulder, give her hugs. Affection is key but be slow with it.I believe its a case of loss of feeling the need to have sex which can be remedied. Going through menopause is really really confusing yes, but its a physical change which changes her emotionally. But she still retains her mental state of when she enjoyed and wanted to have sex with you.I think you should slip her some reminders of you two having sex. Something like erotic fiction (books) is usually a great way to go because it may remind her of what it feels like to be sexually active, it could create some fantasies she may want to try out. Just be safe with what you give her, you aren't trying to brainwash her, your goal is to remind her of being sexually active and return affection.
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