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writes:So my question is mainly for men. I was just wondering why when men go to a bucks night they enjoy the shows that include sex toys and watch a woman use them? What is the fulfilment of this? Do they fantasize about it? what is arousing by that when you have a partner willing to do most things for their partner. Does it cross your mind that your paying for this service? And do you consider it cheating, just watching because you have paid for it.
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (19 September 2015):
 Lol...Depends on where you come from. Buck,stag. Pot or a pint that kind of thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2015): I'm sorry but when did a stag night get recalled 'Buck'?!?!?!?
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (18 September 2015):
Strip clubs and part and parcel of both Bucks and Hens nights so going to them I don't have a problem but I too agree with female anon I'd draw the line at the sex toys. Just takes it to another level. Mind you I have never seen a sleazy male stopper act. Always along the lines of Magic Mike. Females are rather cheap and nasty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2015): All men aren't into that and apparently someone you know is.
Ask him what he gets out of it. Too often women come to this site with a little too much male bashing and generalizing. It's okay to vent, in-fact it's healthy. Just don't let bitterness from a bad personal experience distort your entire view of what men do and like.
Some guys you know had some typical bad-boy fun. You're scorned by it, and now you passive aggressively ask an accusatory question; like all guys are rotten cheats. Not all men are. All women aren't angels and victims.
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (18 September 2015):
 From my experience with these situations, there was nothing arousing with those shows. Most of the guys I know did them because it was a taboo and it was funny that there are stupid and trashing women willing to do all that. After it was all said and done, the stupidity of it all is remembered but none of the females nor would any man there consider anybody those filthy girls marriage material. Personally, I found all that stupid that men would waste so much money and time in useless women so after seeing it for the third time I stopped. So no, it's not about fantasy but about how low women can get for money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2015): It's one thing going out with friends and seeing a stripper but going to see shows like that is a big no no in my opinion! I know I'm a girl so shouldn't really be commenting on this but I'd never want a boyfriend who did that.Obviously a man would enjoy seeing that, I think any guy in the world would find that a turn on, but when they have a girlfriend it shows a total lack of respect and morals. I've been to a strip club with a boyfriend in the past and it was kind of fun but he took me home and enjoyed having sex with me more than seeing strangers naked. I believed him when he said that as it turned him on that I was so open and laid back about it. I wouldn't be offended or hurt if he went with his friends without me either. So I don't think I'm a prude, but the whole sex show with toys is way too seedy for my liking. I consider that cheating.
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