A
male
age
41-50,
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writes:My friend used to go out with a girl called 'C'. I always got on really well with her, basically they just weren't getting on and my friend ended up getting with someone else.'C' was really upset and I made sure that I was there for her. Anyway, she eventually got over him and went on the odd date or 2 with guys. We have remained close, any problems we've had, we confided in eachother. About a month or so ago, she came round to my house for a few drinks and we ended up sleeping together. The problem is, I've got feelings for her, as I write this, I feel like I want to be with her, but I don't know if she sees me in that way or if she's just being a free spirit and it was just a one off. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 October 2014):
 Tell her. Tell her that you like her and would like to have the chance to see if it can turn into something between you. Or, just simply ask her on a date . A date " date " , though , dinner or something, and take it from there.
What's the worst that can happen ?? At worst , she would say " Sorry but I was just being a free spirit and to me it was an once off ". At least you'll know where you stand !
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