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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy in three of my classes. I have met him in summer and then we ended up being in the same classes. He is pretty smart and pretty knowledgeable about a lot of things. We had lunch at the beginning of the classes. He asked for my number to study together. Then there was awhile I felt he was avoiding me. We would just say 'hey' when we saw each other before or after the class, and there were several times I could see in his eyes he wanted to say something more to me, but at that time my friend would ask me something, so I would have to look away from him. Recently he has been more talkative to me, if he gets a chance he walks with me out of the class. He studied with me and my friends twice, though he doesn't actually need our help. He figures out everything on his own.The first time it was me and him studying, but we were doing two different things, we would talk while having 5 minutes breaks. Then he invited me to dinner with his friends but I didn't go. And when he said by and was leaving, he touched my shoulder in very gentle and soft way, not like a pat on shoulder. I didn't expect it at all. Then the next day after the class he looked at me and said if I want to study. We didn't though, he went to a party (he loves partying). He did say I should come to one of the parties because it's a lot of fun.But he joined me and my friends 2 days later. And during that time he showed us a comedy video, and drew the world map on the board (showing off how great he did on his midterm when he only studied for 2 hours), and what I noticed is most of the time he was telling or talking about something, he would mostly look and talk to me and not look at two of my girl friends. I accidentally touched his foot with mine several times (we were sitting next to each other), but he never bothered to move his feet. Then he learned I had never drunk a sip of alcohol in my life, so he insisted that I joined to one of the parties they have in the dorms. He invited me for today's party (it was canceled), and said that I should try to drink, that he actually wants to see how I'll drink (not that I am going to drink hehe, I don't think I'll like the taste). Some of his body language I noticed, when he is sitting next to me in the class, he always stretches several times during the class, but never does when he is sitting somewhere else, when he looks at me he lifts his eyebrows, I am not sure if this body language things are right, but I was wondering if maybe he likes me?I am not sure if I like him or not, one of the reasons I don't want to fall for him, is that he is 5 years younger than me, he is 20, but he is very intelligent, and really interesting person to talk to, more mature than other 20 year old kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2014): OP
Thank you :)
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (12 November 2014):
Although it's impossible to judge whether or not someone fancies someone else based on only one person's written account of behaviour - I would say that it sounds like he fancies you.
He's asking you out to join in with group activities with him (which is often a precursor to asking you out alone in guys of his age group)
I don't see why you should avoid dating him just because he's 5 years younger. At 20 he's an adult and the main thing is that you are attracted to each other and get on together.
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