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writes:I have been modeling for an online swimwear site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modeling? Would that change your outlook on her? Also would you be able to see her as being more than a sex object?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2014): I think that, bigger than your problem with boyfriends, you should consider your problems with future employers; many will google your name and if nude photos come up - good luck; they probably wouldn't take you seriously.Another problem is that most porn actresses started out as swimsuit/nude models, then porn sounded more and more appealing because they were still "in control" of what they'd do and not do and they got paid a lot more.Something you really need to consider is what do they do when a nude model won't do porn, but a new girl will do both? Probably pick the new girl and drop you. Then you're left with EVERYONE having access to X number of photos of you nude and you need to find a new job....I think that, if you want to do it, have seriously thought it through and have the confidence to do it, go for it, but you have to also consider what your dad, brother, uncle, cousin would think if they found it. Would you walk around naked if there was a high chance your dad would walk in on you? Probably not, but he or his colleagues may find it and then you'll have quite a lot of trouble dealing with the knowledge that your family have seen you take sexy, naked pictures for men and women everywhere, and their boss, pub buddies and the mailman knows the ins and outs of their daughter's body.You have to weigh up the pros and cons.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2014): What about If/when the money offers getter bigger and better, do you have that staying power to say no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2014): Only to show off to the lads
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reader, CMMP +, writes (6 June 2014):
I wouldn't care but everyone is different. Be confident in your choices and don't apologize when you don't do anything wrong. If a guy doesn't like it find another one. You are a nude model after all, it shouldn't be too hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2014): I belive many guys have an open mind this days and they may not have any problem about those pictures. However i can tell you that there is a lot of guys too that wont find that very attractive neither, personally i wouldn't like to see pictures of my girlfriend on a porn site, it would make me feel very wary..... Hope it helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2014): I think nude modeling and porn are two different things.Nude modeling draws the line somewhere and most aspiring actresses have done nude modeling at some stage in their careers. whereas porn has no lines or boundaries. I certainly wouldn't date a porn star.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2014): No. Yes. No.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (6 June 2014):
Yes, many men will be fine with dating you. Just don't cross that fine line into porn.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 June 2014):
 I think as LONG as you can stand BY the pictures they take and POST online for EVERYONE to see, I think MANY guys won't have a problem.
I DO think however, there will be plenty who will think less of you. It's the typical double standard. If you show your junk online you "must" be a "slut". If a guy does it, he is cool as ice....
Are you really SURE that you want these pictures to back and bite you in the ass? Consider that not only guys you might DATE can see them, so can future employers. And your family & friends.
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