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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey Aunties and Uncles!!!I have been working in an office for the last two years and have been single for about 8 months.About 10 months ago a new manager started at work. At first i hated him, he was arrogant, rude and loud. He asked me out when he first started but i said no as i had a boyfriend at the time. However, i started to warm to him after a while. He is funny, attractive and once you start getting to know him more personally you can see he is actually quite down to earth and humble. I think his sense of humour is just a lot dryer than other people so its difficult to get a grasp of at first. Anyway, i know he has always fancied me from the beginning. He told my best friend he does. He has also several times asked for my number but we always either got interrupted before i could answer or he would get nervous and change the subject/make a joke out of it. He told me i was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen in his entire life.I know your probably thinking he says that to all the girls. But there are a lot of very attractive girls in my huge office and he only gives this sort of attention to me. Plus he become good friends with my best friend who is male and works with us. They go out a lot together and he told me that all he talks about is me instead of flirting with other girls. He is very attractive, so i know he gets a lot of attention. Anyway a few weeks ago he told us all he was getting transfered to a new building. not his decision. I was gutted. This made me realise that i really like him a lot. I cant stop thinking about him. He left yesterday. The day before he left he wanted to walk home just me and him. I said yes. But another friend offered a lift so we took it. But before we left he asked to talk to me alone. He said that he missed me a lot over the week (he had a trial at his new office)and that he was thinking about me a lot and could stop thinking about me.I was so happy when he said that. But the stupid woman that i am - i just froze and came over all shy and just stood there. This is what always happens, and once again he made a little joke and changed the subject at my lack of reaponse. I feel like such a fool because there was so much i wanted to say. And now he has gone. I didnt think i would care, but i feel slightly heartbroken. No one has ever had this effect on me. I just wished i had courage before to give him my number one of the many times he asked.He has moved to another office about 40-1 hour away from me and moved house down there too. I know the address of the office he is going to be working in and i was thinking about sending a letter, not a long one. Just a note saying i will miss him and here's my number. But is this too creepy? Or should i try and find him on facebook? Or let it go completely? He told my best friend before leaving that he cant imagine not seeing me everyday and that he was sad?Thank you[Mod note: should be a UK flag]
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 February 2014):
 No it's not creepy. Send him an email and tell him you hesitated and now you decide to give it a chance. No need to say a lot. Give it to him little by little. Let him guess what you are thinking.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 February 2014):
 Absolutely get in contact with him. What have you got to lose?
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