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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically I've liked this guy for a while, but he has mentioned before that he likes this other girl, she's in a 3 year relationship and has said before that she does not see him in that way, both to him and me.Either way I had given hope of things ever happening between us, until the other night. When him and another friend stopped over at mine (the friend is a bloke). The bloke I like decided he did not want to sleep in the same bed as our friend and instead first asked me if it was ok if he stayed on the floor in my room, and I said yes. Next thing I know he's in the same bed as me (nothing happened) and he then used the excuse that it was 'cold' in the room and cuddled up to me. We basically ended up spooning, it was not that cold and he always seemed to be able to take the cold quite well, (he opened the window in my car cause he was hot, everyone else was quite cold.) Surely you don't cuddle with someone you just see as a friend do you?Anyway this has not been mentioned since really so I'm completely confused to what's going on. Also that night our friend bought up my ex a lot and the guy I like always went quiet and said absolutely nothing when these conversations were going on ... as if he could have been jealous.Either way my question is does anybody have any clue to what might be going on? Am I reading too much into things that happened? Could it just be purely innocent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2014): It was just a cuddle. It's more comfortable than sleeping on the floor. Don't blow it all out of proportion.
why don't you ask him what it was all about? Maybe he needs an excuse to tell you.
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