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Does she treat me like this because she knows I love her?

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Question - (3 February 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2014)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. When we first started it was GREAT but then everything started going down. For one she has a 1 year old puppy which I knew when I met her and did not have problem with it. But as the relationship got more serious she started to pay more attention to her dog than to me and that's when the emotional abuse started. Kicked me out of her house by telling me this is my house and if you don't like it then get out! or drink almost every day and again abusing me verbally and claiming she does not remember the next day. One night she locked me out of her house for 1 hour and 45 minutes with a temp of 30 and I begged her to let me in and unfortunately I could not go home because she was driving. She finally let me in ONLY because her dog was crying not because I was freezing. She always have negatives comments about me, calls me sour puss, stupid, son of B, etc... I am not sure if I love her or I am just used to her? Do you think she treats me like that because she knows I love Her? I cry every day and feel like dirt :( Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2014):

yes, shes taking advantage of ur love. i like to call this putting ur love on the shelf, 'cos she's just set it aside. i think u should try talking to her once more, or end it. u should not be getting treated like this. she is being bitchy and selfish. gud luck, x!

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