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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him but I'm not in love with him.Is it my duty as a wife to support him when he has not supported me for a long time now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I start. I have 2 boys from a previous relationship, I was with their dad from 11-22, we were kids and were always arguing as he never supported me etc it was mental torture! I met someone else who was kind and I fell for him. He lived miles away but had a good job and ... (208 words)

Did he ever love me? Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met a.man last year and couldn't believe it when he showed interest. Only thing is he loves to drink and always be out, it's not always possible having children and working full time and when he asked he would give.me a ten second window and if didn't say yes he went els... (205 words)

He is so bossy,and full of commands, Feeling confused nd considering breaking up. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Been going out with this guy for 6weeks, and I love him so much. We have little issues but the one that makes me mad is when he says I don't behave like a woman even when I know I do everything just to please him. He says we are working towards marriage and sometime... (133 words)

21, pregnant and my boyfriend wants nothing to do with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just found out I'm pregnant to my boyfriend of 7 months, and I'm heartbroken that he has told me if I want this baby I will have to do it alone as he doesn't want children. I have been naive in terms of contraception, having been told when I was 18 that I suffer fr... (430 words)

Feel really bad about this. I've cheated by kissing another girl. Said I would never cheat. So why did I kiss this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3629 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, as I'm writing this, I'm very shocked and I think you will be shocked also, as I can't believe this has just happened nor can I believe I'm typing this. Im in a relationship it's not been the best relationship through out, when I asked her out she was scared and ... (499 words)

Tried online dating. Do I cut my loses and move on? Or contact him again to meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Em ok at that stage where i want to Date again so decided to do online dating on a Site So i clicked Yes to Meet and Sent a Message with my picture in it. Didn't Hear anything so decided to Cut my loses and move on. A Few days later he Clicked let Meet up.I Sent a Message as... (119 words)

Boyriend locked me out all night -- am I in the wrong or is he?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry it's really long.The other day I was at my boyfriends place and he was being really grumpy and unreasonable with me but I held my tongue as I didn't want a big row,however just as I left his house to go home he said something really nasty to me for no reason,so when he ... (1530 words)

I love her but I deserve better

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So I was in relationship for 3 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks before 30th birthday. I didn't hear for her for weeks only to find out she had a new boyfriend, they even got married. It was a sham marriage but she still loved him. She married him for money to get a pace ... (230 words)

Should I be worried about this guy at the gym?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my girlfriend of 7 years this year joined a gym and for for a while I thought she fancied a lad but I thought maybe - maybe not so this month I notice she's got this lads name in her phone she said he give it her and she forgot she had it . Again I thought ok they are ... (356 words)

He's been so attentive lately that I think something must be off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have noticed that my husband is being weird. What I mean by weird, is that he has taken to giving me compliments. Being very indulgent, like fetching me a sweater when I say I am cold, acting really affectionate, when usually he isn't. My gut feels weird whenever he does ... (120 words)

I can't believe I cheated

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, What I am about to say right now will shock you, it's shocked me much more as I can not believe this has happened, and I am willing to take all the grief I could potentially get from you guys on here but please I beg you to understand my story. I am in a r... (535 words)

Am I right in thinking that he's being rude and inconsiderate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live about 40 min. apart. I come to him most often. There is a lot more to do in his town and restaurants. Plus his work schedule is more tiresome than mine ( swing shift) and I understand that. However, I feel like when I want to do something in my town or ... (337 words)

Do they have to give me time off to get married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Just a quick question. I am looking to get married next year 2015. Preferably during August, but anytime during the summer holidays is fine. Now with regards to work, I would like to take two weeks off during wedding occasion, to include honeymoon also. Since... (145 words)

I feel horrible knowing he's been watching porn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem whereby I feel absolutely horrible knowing my husband has been watching porn one night and then has sex with me the next. I can't help feel that he is thinking of the women he watched and came to . Last night we had sex and I was aware that he had recently been ... (110 words)

I don't know which to choose but I do want one of them

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do , there's 2 guys that like me and I like them they are both very different from each other with their personalities. If they were moulded together they'd be perfect for me. Ok so ill call them a + b . A is older quieter n takes his time over things ... (148 words)

I caught him looking at me after avoiding me for 2mos., is it possible he still cares for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - We haven't had any communication for 2 months now. We ended things amicably because of personal complications. He wanted to give me space by avoiding me first but he claims were still friends. I've stopped approaching him entirely after he didn't show up at my bday maybe bec. ... (295 words)

Should I report my daughter for child neglect?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I love my children with everything of me.They are grown now but my daughter she out living in her own apartment she's working im proud of her but she is dating this druggie she has a child with him and I really despise him he's a deadbeat he lives off of my daughter ... (129 words)

There's something about me that makes it hard to make friends

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Lateley in my life, I have felt very lonely. I got through a divorce from a very mentally abusing man and I have always sort of been that nice girl finishing up last. Many girls sees me as a threat because of how I am as person ( I always stand my ground but consider eve... (521 words)

Three months after we broke up he unblocked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex unblocked me from IG 3 months later and liked several of my pics at 5am so I will know I'm unblocked. It was a really bad break up so not sure what he's doing. Why after all this time? He could've just unblocked me if he thought it was petty to block me after all this ... (71 words)

I want it to last forever, but not like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

14 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - When we first started dating, my boyfriend was nice, affectionate, and eager to spend time with me. Two years later... not so much. He is always making fun of me (in a joking way, but it can be a little mean), no where near as affectionate, and doesn't want to do much ... (280 words)

She said she will always chose her kids father over me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

14 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known my girlfriend for about ten years in total, I've known her family longer than that. Four months ago we got back in contact for the first time in eight years and things went from friendship to more quite quickly because of the history we have together. In these four ... (928 words)