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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. He's my very best friend and I don... (283 words)

He wouldn't commit so I ended it and bought a house. Now we might be getting back together...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, and for the last year I have been unhappy with the progress we've been making. He asked me to move into his home a while back but point blank refused to commit to/discuss any more of a future than that, so it ended up not ... (403 words)

How do I move away from this friendship when we also work together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this person for over 5 years now , we both work together. I used to trust this person and she and i have both been there for each other. I have doing alot of self growth over the last year or so as i have been in a bad place due to alot of things. This ... (477 words)

I snooped on my boyfriend's Facebook account because I no longer trust him - is it time to break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, I've caught him lying to me a couple of times in the last few weeks and I was shocked. I never believed he had it in him and it's taken a lot of begging on his part for me to agree to give him another chance. I've always had an idea what his Facebook password was but ... (134 words)

Why do people cheat instead of just ending their relationship first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't happening to me (I hope) currently and I hope it doesn't, because I truly love my BF and would be absolutely devastated. However, I was cheated on in the past and it has made fearful it could happen again although I try to trust my BF as much as possible. Two peopl... (147 words)

Is it possible my husband does NOT understand respect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband 4 years. He is extremely outgoing and friendly with everyone. There are times when he has no idea what boundaries or respect are. Three examples: 1)he has put one of my intoxicated friends in bed with me but climbs in, in the middle 2)has gone to bar ... (253 words)

I've lost my confidence. How do I become the man I want to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys i am 18 and i really need help! I am really shy person. I dont have confidence. I don't know what to talk to people especially girls and if i make friends i don't know how to maintain friendship what to talk after sometime. How can i turn myself into fun loving guy. I ... (132 words)

Why am I like this? I just feel my whole life has been unlucky in love - when everyone else seems to find happiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - All through my life I have avoided relationships and getting close to guys. When I was a teenager I was quite plain so never got any male attention. However as I grew older I blossomed and had a few men wanting to get close - but never the ones I wanted, so I turned t... (188 words)

I've developed feelings for a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My situation is quite complicated.. When I was 19 this girl really liked me a lot but I didn't like her at all.. I was very shallow when I was young and I regret it. As time passed rby we remained friends.. Eventually she became my best friend. The problem was that recentl... (229 words)

I verbally abuse my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I verbally abuse my boyfriend and I am aware that it is wrong. However, I do it so he can pay attention to me. This time I did it while visiting his job. He ask me for a hug and I told him that I did not want to hug him. Then, I proceeded to tell him that we are over and I hope ... (137 words)

Have I ruined my chance of turning this FWB into something more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've had a fwb recently and it was all pretty normal like only texting to talk times unless last week I went to a party where he was there as well as my ex boyfriend (we went out years ago and now we're pretty close friends as he was a girlfriend so there's no weirdness) ... (303 words)

Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. He's been hinting about se... (232 words)

Seeing a Filipino guy; is he genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I met a Filipino guy in the place in a bar where he works. He’s in his early twenties like me. I feel like this has been a weird journey of many misunderstandings on my part and I’ve probably said some things that must have been cultural misunderstandings... It w... (615 words)

Loves me, loves me not. Then wants to see me again. Am I expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure about what should I do now. I've been with my bf for 5 years and he's going to marry me next year. We used to be so connected and compatible. Our relationship was great. He made surprises and seriously trying hard to make me happy. Since this year our relatio... (573 words)

I'm not given a chance. why do I self sabotage and why are women so picky with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Its like I unconsciously sometimes ( not always) want to fail or make people not want to want to get to know me..as in the past Ive not been accepted, sadly women are cliquey at times and despite efforts ive been cold shouldered or dismissed. like I may hint that im quiet, t... (265 words)

What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had acted very strange and off with... (473 words)

Should I study business jointly with a language? Then where to work and live successfully as a gay man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Since I am completely uncertain of what I should do, I was hoping for someones help. If i succeed in my exams this July I'll hopefully be off for university when summer ends. I have submitted and received offers from all of my university choices but I keep having doubts ab... (510 words)

I feel cheap doing what he asks. Will I lose my fiance if I stop agreeing to his requests to skype while undressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a LDR relationship in which we have met recently and have hadsexual relationships. Everything is well except this man loves sex a lot. He's asked me to undress on Skype and arouse him to masturbate every other night. I've done it twice now and I must say I hate it. It'... (97 words)

I said "yes" to a proposal but I was not ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3644 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - OP's original title ** Call me crazy but I just accepted a proposal from my LDR boyfriend of 6mths. The problem is ever since then there are things about him that I know I won't be able to cope with. I get angry when trying to communicate with him so I don't know if this can... (256 words)

What did his email mean? Does he not want to meet up any more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have a question about what this guy meant in an email. I'm on an online dating site and have been communicating with a few people. One guy in particular wanted to meet up, so he sent an email to ask about meeting up that week (Christmas week). I responded that I... (256 words)

A long time friendship is suddenly feeling like something more..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I've been friends with a guy for years I've known him since he was born(our parents lived next door) he's been in and out of my life due to him having feelings for me since adolescent. I never had these feelings as I couldn't get past the brother feeling. After being away from ... (163 words)