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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Whose decision is it anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (M)

age - My fiancé has 3 children, 21, 23 and 26. They still live at home. Her children want the ex husband to come for Christmas Day lunch at her house. He will not come if I am there. They have been divorced 10 years. She is now telling me she won't override their wish. I need ... (102 words)

Boyfriend's father is immature and rude. How do I deal with his behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This past summer I had an argument with my boyfriend's father ("Rick"). Rick has a painting business and so my boyfriend works for him during the summer. I also work for Rick to make some extra cash. When we paint, we usually would take a break and go out for lunch. Rick woul... (440 words)

When a man is looking for a girlfriend does he prefer her to look plain or modest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What are men looking for? Honestly. I was on my break at work and having a laugh and joke with some of my male colleges. We got on to the subject of kids and i spoke about my daughter and Christmas. One of them said, your not married are you? I responded with no am a single ... (153 words)

He seems into me when he's had a drink, but he was sober when he asked me to the cinema... what's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm really confused... I met this really nice guy online, it started off really slow then we went on a date and we kissed and stayed up late talking, he then stayed at mine, nothing happened just kissing - it was great! We went on another date which again went really well... (276 words)

I'm struggling on how or if I should tell her how I feel about her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3620 days ago

15 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm struggling a little bit on how/if I should tell her I feel about her. My friends already refer to us as going steady. I wouldn't quite push it that far, but within the last month and a half, from the time we met, to now, things quickly escalated from 'accidentally' s... (350 words)

My girlfriend has become very insecure since she became pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf is 15 weeks. It was not planned and we were both shocked in the beginning but after a few weeks we were ok with it. We have decided to keep the baby we know that our lives with change but its just what we wanted. Everyone in her school knows yet she still tried to physi... (173 words)

Is this the correct approach to use with feuding parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm going to ask a series of questions and I just wanted your opinion. I fully understand that kids (I know I'm not so young) should be kept out of feuding parents business, but no one ever gives useful advice when they force your hand. OK. Question 1: Am I a... (491 words)

Unhappily married and strongly attracted to another woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

15 December 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi last week I went out for a Christmas meal and drinks with colleagues and it ended up with just me and a girl. We both work remotely from the office and see each other on the odd occasion but live near each other. Anyway we ended up have a couple of more drinks together... (559 words)

Men, would you keep going back if the sex wasn't good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - 1) Would a man (being the initiator 90% of the time) keep having sex with a woman if it was bad sex? Bad as in, you couldn't orgasm during the act and had to take care of yourself later, it was too loose, too wet, too sloppy, she was a dead lay. For whatever reason she just ... (291 words)

I'm very anxious about meeting his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3652 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for around eight months. I say long distance, we live around two and a half/three hours drive from each other. We meet up halfway most weekends and spend a Friday and Saturday night together and mos... (321 words)

I'm not sure if I should try to work this out or just move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3657 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice on a situation and hoping I will get the answers to make a decision. I am in a long term not sure if you would call it a relationship we don't live together but things have been good for a while. Last week, he text me to say he was "having to go abro... (909 words)

Would it be ok for me to have a casual arrangement with an abusive ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have recently came out of an emotionally, verbally very very abusive relationship. He was the love of my life who started turning abusive for past 1 year and I became a typical doormat for him, lost all my self esteem, hated myself for being with him. I believe ... (251 words)

A man stuck in an unhappy relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi im a 34 year old man. I have a girlfriend and we have been together for more than three years. She moved in with me right after we slept together. Everything was going smoothly but now a days my girlfriend has become very possessive. She doesnt work and i have to give her... (232 words)

My boyfriend isn't bothered by keeping me waiting.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I will keep this short. My boyfriend does not see anything wrong with keeping me waiting. I will say "I can be to your house at 7, does that sound good"?He will say yes and a lot of the time when I get there he is just getting in the shower. He takes a long time to get ready.A ... (200 words)

I think I may have missed my chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was getting pretty close to a man in the last few months but was unsure if I wanted to just stay as close friends or go further with him which he was wanting to do. Anyway, because I was indecisive and unsure he has suddenly moved on to another woman now which has hurt me. he ... (153 words)

Men, are average women not attractive enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3657 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I often read that porn watching is just about seeing the act and that men really don't care about the look of the women in porn and are not imagining having sex with them If this is true ? Why do so many of the women in porn all look the same . It seems that plump women , ... (115 words)

I feel suffocated but can't say anything becausethey will be hurt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all I am a student studying abroad for the past two years. I have grown up enjoying a healthy and close relationship with my parents and family. But unlike the rest of my family I am a complete introvert. I am an artist so I go into these phases of being detached and jus... (225 words)

My boyfriend says he thinks it's disrespectful to finger a girl. How can I encourage him to consider it as part of lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend says he thinks it's disrespectful to finger a girl and that he's never done it. I think the disrespect thing is a cop out. I don't get it. He says he never has and never will. It's a big deal for me because it's a way to be intimate. What do i do? ... (57 words)

I really like him, but does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - so i really like this but i don't know if he feels the same about me. i read online that if a guy like you he will try and touch you a lot and he never does that to me. he hasn't asked me for my number either sometimes i think he does like me back because he always... (202 words)

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

15 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman behind my back. This was over two yea... (360 words)