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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mother is ruining my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, First of all, I’d like to say that I am not a native English speaker so please, forgive my spelling mistakes! Sooo, here is the story. I am 24 and I live at my mother’s place with my younger sister (16 years old) – and no father - after spending 6 years ... (399 words)

I can't trust any man so should I even consider dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3654 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Recently im so confuse and i dont know what to do. I have been single for the past 1year 2 months due to the passing away of my late boyfriend. I was battling to pay the bond cause we used to share the payment with my late boyfrien and the worste is that i cant sell ... (223 words)

I have a phobia about throwing up in public. How am I going to get through my wedding day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I'm hoping someone can help. I have always suffered from anxiety due to my phobia of vomiting - I go through good and bad stages. I have seeked various therapy, counselling and anti depressants but they were all short fixes. I have even spent hundreds of p... (425 words)

Do I keep supporting him or do I go part time and further my education which is currently on hold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure I would call this a relationship problem but it is an internal conflict involving me and my boyfriend. I would greatly appreciate anyone sharing their personal experience if they can relate or any advice they have to share. But first some background info on my ... (856 words)

Am I really in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a mostly happy relationship. I am 29 and my boyfriend is a couple of years younger than me. We have known each other for a few years before becoming official. I started living with him and his Dad last year when my Mum kicked me out of her place. I took ages to tak... (371 words)

How do I find someone to help fulfill my fiance's fantasy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together 4.5 years. We are very secure and loving toward each other and I don't see that changing at all. However, he's got a fantasy that he kind of wants to fulfill before we get married and has told me that he wants me to choose the girl we do this ... (211 words)

I am so unhappy and am losing who I am in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age - I have been married 28 years and am 51 years old and lhave helped get my husband thru 2 bouts of leukemia. It seems that his needs always have come first and since his illness it has gotten worse. You would think he was. 2 year old that couldn't function on their own. He is ... (285 words)

Is it correct to send a christmas card to my ex girlfriend parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 December 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - my long distance girlfriend and me broke up a few days ago. however her parents have been always good to me, they are very nice people and i appreciate them. i will have no more contact with my ex anymore. would it be politically incorrect to send her parents a christmas card ... (56 words)

How do I win back my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm still in love with my ex. He is with a new girl but says he still thinks of me. We have met up and had sex and he said he loved me afterwards. I think he is happy with the new girl but doesn't enjoy the intimacy as much. I will be spending 16 days with him and his ... (93 words)

Has your fiance or significant other ever said to you that they appreciate your 'sexual favors?'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé use to have a friend with benefits. I often wonder what he did in exchange for her when they had sex. Did he buy her gifts or give her money for sex. She wanted a FWB relationship. He wanted more than that from a relationship. I got my Christmas gift early this ... (255 words)

Not sure where to take this FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I have always appreciated and taken seriously your insightful and wise advice! Well, I have known this guy for four years when we both used to be with other partners. After we both broke up we met due to some professional circumstances and we sta... (382 words)

How do you know that you have tried your best to fix your marriage and it's time to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a long term relations hip with a man for 12yrs, 2 of that as my husband. Over the years, we have had the same issues, problems dealing with but got past it. On my end, we passed it because we keep ignoring our core issues and got tired of fighting over the same ... (817 words)

My needy friend wants more time than I can give

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles I'm looking for some advice on how to tactfully deal with a clingy friend. I met my friend through work, she's 4 years younger than me and we have quite a lot in common. We have known eachother since September. She started popping over in her lunch breaks to ... (403 words)

Does herpes rule out a successful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

2 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just been diagnosed with herpes. I'm aware that the presence of this virus in my body is going to complicate my dating life greatly, but is it still possible for me to have a successful relationship with someone? Also, what's the best way of broaching the subject without ... (113 words)

We got into a new relationship too soon after a break up and really struggling with the complications of it all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We were both in relationships when we met, but he still used to message me and we'd talk a lot but I didn't think much of it. More recently I've been single for a while and we were both at the same event over a weekend where we got on incredibly well, he was still with his ... (370 words)

We separated and I've been hearing about other men she's slept with. Do I move on? Come to terms with her actions? Or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello ive been with my girl for two years and at first everything was great. Then we both started having money problems and she got fired. Then i got injured at work. Then i started hearing rumors of other men who she slept with at one time. She wanted me to go with her to he... (136 words)

Is it acceptable that my Bf of 2 years rejected a Thanksgiving invitation and went drinking with a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I invited boyfriend of 2 years to stop by my family's thanksgiving dinner in the city when he was done with his family in the suburbs. He is a 35 minute drive away. In the morning when I first mentioned it, he said he would probably have too much wine during dinner and not ... (249 words)

Abusive ex is engaged to his new girlfriend of only 3 months! How can he be like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in an abusive relationship for over a year and just had a baby. My ex left us and got with someone else. Now they're engaged to be married here soon after only three months. I'm feeling horrible. Is he getting back at me or trying to prove he's moved on and better off? I ... (75 words)

Why can't I get over this and attract someone decent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - After a period of a few years alone, (i had taken care if my elderly fatheruntil his death, had a long court battle with family who had deserted us, and then had cervical cancer- a very horrible time, that left me burnt out mentally and physically) i met a man who i fell in ... (614 words)

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant while we were broken up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together a year and a half. I am a 32 year old woman... and have had my experience in the dating world. This man I just knew was my love from the beginning. That feeling that can't be defined. But... at the end of the year and a half... he started to ... (523 words)