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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

18 months together and all was well. So why has he started being distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is being very distant and i dont know what to do. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. So far everything has been hunky dory! Hes fab! I love him, he loves me and were planning to buy a house together next year so we both appear committed. We... (294 words)

How can I convince her to wait until I'm ready for marriage and children?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

23 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm looking for some impartial advice and my girlfriend uses this site a lot so thought I'd give it a try. We have been together for 5 years, I am 27 and she is 29, and recently she has been putting a lot of pressure on me to commit to marriage and chi... (252 words)

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?... (45 words)

Two separate lives... how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a white girl that met and fell in love with an Asian guy, we had a baby over a year ago. His family have never acknowledged our baby or me. He used to visit them to meet his children to his ex partner who is also white btw. In the end and probably partly due to me not ... (147 words)

Would you change something that you hated about yourself, even if family and friends were against it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently I have been thinking about having a my breasts lifted and possibly made a little bigger. I have spent the past three years getting into shape after years of feeling bad about my body and my body went from a size 18 (uk) to a size 8-10. I feel so much more confiden... (463 words)

He feels responsible for his depressed ex gf......how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for a month now. We really like each other and things were going great. Til now. I dont know the ins and outs of why he and his ex of 7 years split up back in summer but I do know that they werent right together and they both did bad things to one ... (406 words)

Is he hinting he is interested even though I am married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I got to know a man at his place of work. I used to go there for business related issues, and we got to talking. He then got transferred to another location (also near by) and hinted for me to pass by and say hi. I thought nothing of it, just friendly jargon. I ... (595 words)

This is not the first time he has done this to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf wanted to go celebrate newyear in NY. So I have booked tickets and did all the other arrangements which costed me a whole lot of money. Now he is complaining about the flights, hotels everything. I have actually checked with him before going ahead with this ... (186 words)

Do December May relationships ever work, especially if the woman is older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age - Do December-May relationships ever work in the real world? Woman older, man 17 years younger.... (18 words)

How can I get him to show more affection for me and be lovey-dovey to me? we have been dating for 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend isn't very good at making moves? So weve been dating for a couple weeks now and before that weve been best friends for nearly 2 years. He asked me out, however he isn't really the "lovey dovey" kind of person. I want him to be and my friend knows him well and she ... (98 words)

How can I deal with my frustration at the rude ignorant behaviour of my Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I will keep this short. My boyfriend and I were in (large well known store) tonight. The cashier was being very slow and having difficulties with the register or something. WE had to wait...My bf then starts saying OUT LOUD something along the lines of lack of intelligence of ... (312 words)

I feel like such a loser lately!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Man I feel like such a loser lately. I'm 22 years old, filled regret from my college experience because it was basically 4 years of stress/emotional suffering/extreme loneliness. I graduated with an ok gpa luckily, but so far I have no job (I've been consistently applying ... (283 words)

How to COMMUNICATE I don't like what he called me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Chatting with a great guy via text and we've yet to meet. Our meeting being next month. Last night he had to go to sleep quite early and while saying good night, referred to me as 'babe'. "Night night babe sleep well." I feel the babe thing is way to early and feels forced... (122 words)

This will be my last attempt to save our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - After dealing with this for months/years now, here are the facts: I married a guy I know now I dont love anymore but still care and trust very deeply. I still can't forget about this other guy that I met and has made me happy, positive and felt love in my life again. We have ... (507 words)

EVERYTHING IS GREAT!! ................ except for our sex life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just start by saying I LOVE my partner very very much. All I want is to make him happy and NEVER hurt him. He is 21, I am almost 23. We have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2. He is my best friend in the whole world and we can talk about anyth... (772 words)

She wont move in with me until her 20yo weed smoking, all day sleepin' unemployed son is on his feet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

23 December 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear agony aunts and uncles. My dilemma is my girlfriends children. I've been seeing my girlfriend for over 18 months now and we've discussed moving into together, however the problem is, is her children. They are 18 (daughter) and 2 sons 20 and 21. The youngest and eldest ... (353 words)

How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

23 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and frustrated all the time. I'm going to... (435 words)

I am supposed to visit my BF for Christmas, but he is not responding to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm in LDR with my bf for past 1 year. We r in a relationship for.past 4 years. He went abroad for his work. Earlier he used to call me everyday and we used to talk everyday or text me. Nowadays he is not calling me and if I do.he is not picking up the calls and no... (245 words)