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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is she being selfish and should I bring it up in such a new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - To cut straight to the chase, I think my girlfriend is selfish. But is she? Is it just me overreacting? Basically I really like this girl. We've been together about 2 months. We've told each other that we like each other and were not trying to meet anyone else now. I don'... (313 words)

My boyfriend's mother dominates our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - (Sorry, this ended up being a long question. It's a few issues, that all stem from the same issue. I think. I hope the below makes sense!) So I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and for the most part our relationship is happy and healthy. In the past we've tried dati... (421 words)

My brother and sister-in-law are keeping their new baby away from family

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this in advance. My brother just recently had a baby, its his first and the first grandchild. We have a beautiful little 5 week old baby in our family and everyone adores him. Is it normal to not send family members pictures... (288 words)

Why does living with your parents look much worse in guys than it does in girls? for guys it usually kills their chances of having a dating life/sex life, for girls not so much

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - If a guy lives with his parents, usually it seems if the guy is past a certain age and lives with his parents, he won't get a second look from most women, but if a woman lives with her parents regardless of her age, it's usually not a deal-breaker to most men, regardless if the ... (93 words)

I'm devasted after my soul mate dumped me 2 months ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so screwed up. My lovely bloke broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together 3 years and he was my soulmate.unfortunately we had 2 years of abuse from my ex. He stood by me but over last,12 months I saw his personality change and I think he has adult ADHD which I found ... (150 words)

Should I confront her about her secret correspdence with her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 December 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I've just found out my girlfriend has been messaging her ex in secret, should I confront her about it? We're both 26 and have been together 6 years. Her ex was her childhood sweetheart but they split up after he cheated on her. A few days ago I was using our iPad and an ... (224 words)

My friend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3647 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been friend with a girl for over an year,i liked her from start but die to our families, we certainly cat get married.so i never told her that i like her,we both knew it but still my feelings for her grew, now i am cmpletely in love with her at one point she told me ... (208 words)

Am I wasting my time waiting for my boyfriend to grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 5 years and I have been having a hard time recently. Basically, I have caught him out in a couple of lies (things I wouldn't care about him doing, but I do care that he lied/hid them from me) and I'm struggling to trust the things he says as I don't know what ... (318 words)

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would say things like “you having sex?... (97 words)

My friend's boyfriend isn't good for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm worried about my friend, she met a guy of plenty of fish 5 years ago,she practically speaks or txt every day with him,he's moved in with her 2times for a couple of months even her toddler loves him(dad doesn't see her child) Anyways last Yr when he moved bk with her he s... (232 words)

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and her got together his interest ... (644 words)

Widowed mother sleeping with someone , I don't know with whom. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, I'm From India ( Male ) and my father passed away 8 year ago and today i found a pregnant test at my home, ( i don't have sister, its just me and my mom, no one else live with us, and no she didn't buy for someone else.the one i found at home is open but unused ... (149 words)

My girlfriend says my the relationship between me and my son is unhealthy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My son 21 and we have a great mother and son relation but my girlfriend always finding fault in our relationship. Because my son tells me I'm his number one woman in his life and he's the only child i have and we can talk about everything, my girlfriend tells me i need to put ... (85 words)

If I break up with my girlfriend I will have nobody!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

27 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend complained to me tonight about me not having any friends..we both know it's true, but it stung because we always kept it beneath the surface. I'm an awkward guy and I lack the effort of connecting with people, especially in college where everyone else has wacked ... (167 words)

I am worried about upcoming annual reviews at work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I'm a recent grad who began my new office job in July and I'm very overwhelmed. I'd truly appreciate your advice. I work in a freight forwarder for a major ocean exporter. My job is mainly to discuss rates with carriers and review contracts. I also update ... (515 words)

Can age gaps work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

27 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, why do I always fall for older men! I have had 2 serious relationships one when I was 19 and he was 38. Then I met my daughter's father (48) when I was 22 which ended badly. I swore after that I had to stick to men around my own age, more in common, more chance of a ... (155 words)