New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2014, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (15), 2 (20), 3 (23), 4 (22), 5 (12), 6 (15), 7 (21), 8 (16), 9 (19), 10 (16),
11 (15), 12 (14), 13 (14), 14 (21), 15 (20), 16 (22), 17 (17), 18 (18), 19 (11), 20 (16),
21 (20), 22 (21), 23 (18), 24 (8), 25 (9), 26 (11), 27 (16), 28 (9), 29 (17), 30 (21),
31 (8),

Archived questions from: 10 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

(More questions from December, 2014)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband of 5 years is a miserly selfish man. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Cupids, Its been a year now and I have been trying to love my "5 years in marriage" huband again, but have failed. I lost feelings for him since I realized he's greedy, miserly person. He stated he would only fund for my food and shelter and that's what he does. Even at that,... (159 words)

My Husband is Touchy with another woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband Ray for 5 years and we have been going to a dance class, we get to switch partners which I have no problem with, but Ray seems to go out of his way to touch this Stacy when there are times that don't have nothing to do with dancing, such as, ... (239 words)

I snooped, found something I didn't like about my boyfriend, and now what??? ADVICE please!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We currently live together; have been for 2 years. We also have a 1 year old together! The first two years of our relationship was a long distance one. We lived three hours apart and we saw each other for about 1-2 weeks out of the... (682 words)

Why is this man everywhere I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he everywhere i go! Honestly I called out a hand man in the summer he dragged the job out as long as possible. Now i seen to "bump into him on my street almost everyday sometimes even 2x. Like I know I can almost write it off as he has other jobs in the area, but with no ... (128 words)

How do I overcome a major crush on my tutor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted this a few days ago but did not receive a reply so re-posting...... I am in my late 20's and started Uni this year. I seem to have developed a big fat stupid crush on my tutor....I think it's a crush anyway! I have a long term boyfriend, who I love...but I never... (269 words)

Why did this man make the comment if he didn't mean it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy at work who's very loud and doesn't really care about offending people. He's always flirting with me and making vulgar comments so he's not exactly my favourite person. I told him I had a sister and he asked to see what she looked like. I showed him a Fac... (153 words)

How would a guy's friends act around his crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So say a girl likes a guy, but he has no idea, and she feels he likes her too, but she's not sure. And she walks up to his friend to say 'hello' and make small chit chat (while the guy crush is nearby in the room). When she starts talking to the friend, he looks down to th... (152 words)

How do we rebuild trust after this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend had an argument about 5 weeks ago now as I found messages on his phone to other girls. Messages like 'Hey Sexy', a picture of a girl with no top on and his reply was 'now thats hot' and other stuff. We had a chat and we both didn't want to let some silly t... (165 words)

Why are so many men prepared to put their own orgasm and desire to see porn above respecting women and their partners emotions

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are so many men prepared to put their own orgasm and desire to see porn above respecting women and their partners emotions Every day I'm reading post after post from women feeling hurt by their partners porn use . Far from being insecure these women have a legitima... (314 words)

I am back with my ex, now how to let the other guy down gently!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i let a guy down ,id split up with my boyfriend about 2 week ago i went out on a night out with friends to a different town and met a man it was nice having attention and a cheeky snog but i feel thats all it would be hes not boyfriend material for me , ive spoke to my ... (146 words)

My wife has been having an emotional affair... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (M)

age - I have been married for more than 20 years and have had to move to another state for employment reasons. I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair on an emotional level with my ex neighbour. It has been mainly by email and letters with the offer from my ... (129 words)

How to tell a friend he/she can't stay in your apartment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have no idea how to tell my friend that she can’t stay with us this spring. And this is just a tip of the iceberg. Background: We’ve known each other for about 15 years. We have common interests and I love our talks. We have fun together. Our life styles are, however, co... (762 words)

We bought a home together. Now she's taken up with a new guy and kicked me out of our home. How can I convince her that I'm not the ''controlling'' one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have lived with this girl for 3 years. She recently started talking to some other guy and left me. The problem is im pretty sure she is being manipulated. This guy kicked me out of the house we bought together and controlls who she talks to. Everytime she calls me she acts... (111 words)

Is he just playing me? Could he really like me? Or has he met someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man on an online dating site. We exchanged long emails for about a month before meeting, out of circumstance. When we met things got pretty intense quickly. He obviously liked me a lot (I liked him too) and he started sending a lot of text messages, etc. I told him I ... (236 words)

Feeling guilty, ashamed and lost. What can I do about my obsession with this 30 year old woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Here it goes.. I'm a 20 year old girl, I have a 21 year old boyfriend and the woman in question is 30 years old. I met this woman on holiday, we got drunk together, I'd say a little bit flirty but nothing major. She was at a party the other week and she stared at me a lot, but ... (280 words)

I feel like I'm blamed for our break up. How can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My Fiance and I have been together for about 5 years. We both hurt each other Bad which lead to us breaking Up for about a year well we decided to work it out but now it just feels like theres a void between us i take part blame but it seems. Like I'm blamed for all of it. ... (92 words)